Admitting Disagreement, Kartika Putri Highlights the Virality of Infidelity Drama on Social Media: Partners Reflect Themselves

Apparently, the woman who is familiarly called Karput is starting to get annoyed seeing netizens often viralize her partner's infidelity actions on social media.

"I don't agree if her husband cheats, happy to make her husband go viral," said Karput when met in the Kemang area, South Jakarta, not long ago.

For women who have given birth to two children, uploading the act of infidelity carried out by the hurt party is the same as exposing their own shame.

Because it went viral, many people know about their marital conflicts, even though it is clearly forbidden in religion.

"Because as bad as our partner is, it is a reflection of ourselves. In religion, I am taught to protect the shame of fellow creatures, especially our religious leader," he said.

The 33-year-old woman said, it is not necessarily the party who is hurt and uploads their partner's infidelity becomes the right party. It would be wiser not to broadcast it on social media.

"I prefer to introspect myself and see where I lack. Yes, forgiving, but giving a chance, oh certainly not," she said.

Kartika Putri is afraid that in the future, exposing the flaws in a marriage will become a common thing. However, there will definitely be consequences for the woman if she viralizes her partner's flaws.

"It's just for me personally, it's not good for the woman, people might be afraid of her. Both of us are normalizing the spreading of our partner's flaws, which should not be encouraged," said Kartika Putri.

In the future, the wife of Habib Usman bin Yahya hopes that if there is such a case, the injured party will not hastily upload it to social media. Because, every household must have its own problems.

"Humans have their own flaws and trials. We are not perfect, but we can strive to become better for everyone and as a couple in the eyes of Allah," Kartika Putri concluded.