Aurel Hermansyah Reveals Her Fear of Being Pregnant Again, Shares Her Story in a Study About Being Bullied by Netizens

Kapanlagi.com - Pregnancy should be a joyful moment for every mother. However, for Aurel Hermansyah, that experience left a deep trauma. The wife of Atta Halilintar admitted that she is afraid to get pregnant again after receiving many negative comments from netizens on social media.

While attending the Breastfeeding Fest 2025 study in South Jakarta on Saturday (8/3/2025), Aurel shared how the mockery of netizens about her appearance during pregnancy affected her mentally. The hurtful words she received made her feel pressured and reconsider having another child.

Aurel then sought advice from Ustaz Hilman Fauzi on how to deal with bullying and overcome her trauma. In the study, Ustaz Hilman provided wise advice so that Aurel could be calmer and more confident in living her life as a mother.

1. Aurel Hermansyah Bullied by Netizens During Pregnancy

From being bullied by netizens to the fear of getting pregnant again. (credit:instagram.com/aurelie.hermansyah)

Aurel revealed that during her pregnancy, many netizens commented on the changes in her body shape. She was often called fat and appeared older, even though she was focused on breastfeeding and couldn't go on a diet at that time. These harsh comments flooded her social media and made her feel very pressured.

In her sharing session with Ustaz Hilman Fauzi, Aurel admitted that she felt guilty and questioned whether what she experienced was her fault. "Actually, this is not a problem with my husband, it's more about the comments from outside that make me think. Am I wrong?" she said.

2. Trauma That Makes Aurel Afraid to Get Pregnant Again

From being bullied by netizens to the fear of getting pregnant again. (credit:instagram.com/aurelie.hermansyah)

Not only feeling sad, Aurel also experienced deep fear of getting pregnant again. She even thought about not having more children because she didn't want to go through the same thing. "Because of such painful words, I started to think, it seems like I don’t want to get pregnant again," she said softly.

The mental pressure she experienced made her feel less confident. Aurel even questioned whether a mother should feel trauma like what she felt. This feeling continued to haunt her and made her want to find a solution to feel more at ease.

3. Advice from Ustaz Hilman Fauzi: Stay Away from Social Media

From being bullied by netizens to the fear of getting pregnant again. (credit:instagram.com/aurelie.hermansyah)

In response to Aurel's complaints, Ustaz Hilman Fauzi suggested that she reduce her activity on social media. According to him, distancing herself from negative comments could help Aurel focus more on her own happiness and that of her family.

"In my opinion, Mom Aurel should take a break from social media, so she doesn't keep thinking about it, and to maintain her confidence as a mother," said Ustaz Hilman. He also emphasized that no one can please everyone, so it's better to focus on things that bring happiness.

4. Atta Halilintar Also Feels the Impact of Bullying

As a husband, Atta Halilintar also feels the impact of the bullying experienced by Aurel. He admits to being concerned seeing his wife continuously receiving criticism, especially related to her appearance.

Atta also tries to provide support in various ways, including suggesting that Aurel temporarily deactivate her social media. In addition, he created the song "Aku Juga Manusia" as a form of expression and encouragement for Aurel to regain her self-confidence.

5. Aurel Strives to Rise and Regain Self-Confidence

Despite experiencing deep trauma, Aurel is trying to rise. She realizes that as a mother, she must remain strong and not dwell too much in sadness. One step she has taken is seeking support from close friends who are always there for her.

Aurel is also beginning to understand that happiness is not determined by the opinions of others. With the support of her family and advice from Ustaz Hilman Fauzi, she hopes to gradually eliminate her trauma and focus more on her own happiness and that of her family.

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