Aurel Hermansyah Shares Trauma of Pregnancy Due to Bullying: It Feels Really Painful

"When I was pregnant, it seemed like many people were bullying or saying things that I found really painful," said Aurel in Kuninhan, South Jakarta, Saturday (3/8/2025).

Aurel also expressed her feelings to Ustaz Hilman Fauzi. She asked for advice on how to cope with the trauma that still lingers to this day.

"Or maybe there are suggestions for me, so that in the future I can get rid of this trauma. Even though I know it's something that, well, can a mother really be traumatized like this?" she added in a soft tone.

Aurel admitted that she couldn't handle the negative comments attacking her on social media. The bullying she received not only hurt her feelings but also affected her mental health and self-confidence.

The eldest daughter of Anang Hermansyah and Krisdayanti explained that the harsh comments started flooding social media since she became pregnant with her first child, Ameena.   "The words really made me lose my confidence. There were even moments when I felt really down," Aurel revealed.

The impact of the bullying was not only felt by Aurel emotionally but also affected her decision regarding caring for her child. She admitted to having doubts about breastfeeding Ameena due to a loss of self-confidence.

Her condition was quite severe, to the point where I thought, 'Can I be a good mother?' Even though this is a time that should be filled with happiness," she said with an emotional tone.

Nevertheless, Aurel is now trying to rise up and fight against the trauma she experienced. She also hopes to receive support and advice to become stronger in facing future challenges.   "My hope is to be able to move on and be more prepared for the next pregnancy. I want to be a stronger mother for my children," she concluded.

The trauma experienced by Aurel is a real depiction of the negative impact of bullying on social media. She hopes that this experience can serve as a lesson for society to be more wise in commenting online.