Bedu and His Ex-Wife Maintain Their Children's Mental Health, Separating Amicably

Kapanlagi.com - The main priority for Bedu and his ex-wife, Irma Kartika Anggreani, during their divorce process is to maintain the mental health of their children. Both are committed to showing that parental separation does not mean the loss of love and harmony.

One step they have taken is to be transparent with their children, who are now teenagers. Bedu revealed that the decision to separate was even made in front of them so that nothing was hidden.

"It seems like the kids, first Abrar and Devan, right? Devan is already a teenager, and when we decided to divorce, it was in front of them. So they seem to already know," explained Bedu when met in the Tendean area, South Jakarta, Wednesday (5/11/2025).

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1. Send a Message to His Children

Bedu with His Beloved Children (cr:Instagram.com/beddu17)

He always emphasizes to his children that the only thing that has changed is the status between him and Anggi, not their roles as parents. He continues to convey this message to provide understanding and reassurance for his children.

"You are not losing parents, okay. You still have a father, you still have a mother. The only difference is the status of father and mother. Father and mother are no longer husband and wife, but they remain your parents," he said.

2. Good Communication with Ex-Wife

Bedu at His Divorce Hearing (cr:KapanLagi.com/Budy Santoso)

The evidence of their good relationship is also seen in the communication that still exists. Bedu admits that he still often communicates with Anggi, and even his ex-wife does not hesitate to remind him to be careful when speaking in front of the media.

"It's safe. Just now she asked... she said, 'Where?' 'I'm about to go live Ambyar,' you know. In the end, she knows, she knows that I'm about to go live and then she said, 'Be careful with what you say,'" said Bedu.

3. Q&A

Q: How do Bedu and his ex-wife maintain their children's mental health despite the divorce?
A: Bedu and Irma Kartika Anggreani maintain their children's mental health by being transparent about their decision to separate, even in front of them, and continuously emphasizing that their parental roles will not change.

Q: Does Bedu still communicate with his ex-wife after the divorce process?
A: Yes, Bedu admits he still often communicates with his ex-wife, Irma Kartika Anggreani, even for daily matters, showing that their good relationship remains intact for the sake of the children.

Q: What is the commitment of Bedu and his ex-wife?
A: Bedu and his ex-wife show that parental separation does not mean the loss of love and harmony.

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