Experience Multiple Grief, Indah Kalalo Experiences Sad Story of Being Left Forever by 4 Loved Ones - Now Living in Bali

Kapanlagi.com - Indah Kalalo's life often becomes the center of attention even though it is not so sensational. Indah is one of the celebrities in the country who now resides in Bali with her small family.

Indah, who lives with her husband, Ibrahim Justin Werner, is even more fulfilled with happiness because of the presence of their three children. However, behind the happiness that Indah Kalalo now feels, she holds a deep grief because she has been left forever by the people she loves.

Indah lost her father, mother, older sister, and her first love. Their departure certainly brings a deep grief in her life. It is not easy to live without the loved ones around. However, Indah Kalalo still stands strong on her own two feet and builds happiness with her small family.

1. The Departure of Loved Ones

Indah Kalalo Experiences Heartbreaking Story of Being Left Forever by 4 Loved Ones / Photo Credit: instagram.com/indahkalalo

The pain is deeply felt by Indah Kalalo who was left behind by her loved ones. Indah's father passed away forever when she was only 14 years old. Indah's first boyfriend also died of cancer when she was 18 years old. 

"Since I was very young, I have experienced the most difficult trials, the first one was my father's death when I was 14. Then at 18, my first boyfriend died, brain cancer," said Indah Kalalo on Melaney Ricardo's YouTube channel, which was uploaded recently.

The pain was felt again after Indah Kalalo got married and had children. In 2016, Indah experienced another loss when her mother passed away forever. Surprisingly, Indah's older sister also followed their parents in 2020.

"And then, my mother passed away (2016), and then my older sister, 2020," said Indah Kalalo.

She has experienced a series of grief from childhood to adulthood. In a conversation with Melaney Ricardo, Indah Kalalo admitted that she felt shattered at one point.

2. Multiple Griefs

Indah Kalalo's Multiple Griefs / Photo Credit: instagram.com/indahkalalo

Indah Kalalo admits that being left by loved ones since a young age is the most painful thing she has ever experienced. Furthermore, now Indah Kalalo has to feel the pain of no longer having parents and siblings.

"So in my opinion, for example if you get hit by a car, it's better if I'm the one who gets hurt'. That's usually how it goes. But there is no trial that is more painful than being left by (loved ones), that is the most painful pain I have ever felt," said Indah Kalalo.

3. Indah Kalalo Can Only Surrender and Take Lessons

Indah Kalalo Can Only Surrender and Take Lessons / Credit Photo: instagram.com/indahkalalo

Losing loved ones is undoubtedly a heavy trial that Indah Kalalo has experienced. Having a life story full of sorrow, Indah Kalalo still draws wisdom from the loss of her family forever. Furthermore, there are unpleasant things that make her stronger and wiser.

"And I keep getting tested. I mean, many people are lucky enough to have parents until they are old, both old. But since I was 14 years old, I no longer have a father. And not only that, I don't have a mother and sister," said Indah Kalalo.

"And then, people around me keep leaving. It's really painful. But that's what makes me strong and always appreciate things. That's why I don't want to be angry with people for a long time, hold grudges for a long time. I always see the positive side of everyone because life is very valuable. Once it's gone, you can't ask for time back," concluded Indah Kalalo.

(kpl/slm)