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How BCL Deals with Negative Comments from Netizens Since Marrying Tiko Aryawardhana, Self-Reflection to Avoid Stress

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How BCL Deals with Negative Comments from Netizens Since Marrying Tiko Aryawardhana, Self-Reflection to Avoid Stress bcl faces negative comments since marrying tiko aryawardhana (photo credit: instagram.com/itsmebcl)

Kapanlagi.com - Written by Vierda Safyra

Bunga Citra Lestari, or familiarly known as BCL, finally officially ends her single life after the departure of her husband, Ashraf Sinclair, in 2020. Closing the beautiful memories and old love story with Ashraf, BCL is now determined to marry Tiko Aryawardhana (2/12).

A person who has brought new happiness to BCL and her son, Noah. BCL and Tiko's wedding took place in Bali, inviting family, relatives, and even Ashraf's family. Ashraf's mother has acknowledged that BCL has become like her own child, and she is happy to witness BCL and Tiko's marriage.

Amidst the happy moment of BCL and Tiko, there are still netizens who leave negative comments and insults on BCL's social media. BCL's decision to remarry Tiko often becomes the target of insults from netizens. How does BCL deal with it? Let's find out below!

1. Always Self-Introspection

Through an interview on Her World Indonesia's Youtube channel, BCL talked with Iwet Ramadhan about negative comments and bullying. Having a career in the music and film industry in Indonesia for 19 years, BCL admits to frequently receiving criticism since she was young.

Without thinking negatively and excessively, BCL chooses to introspect because she cannot force others to like her. "What have I just done? Did I offend someone or what, if it turns out they can't find it, maybe it's just not suitable," said BCL.

2. Not Being Stressed

Every time BCL uploads something on her social media, there are always negative comments. As a human being, she also feels annoyed and wants to respond to those comments. However, BCL admits that she cannot force the person's perspective.

"If, for example, I start to feel sad or judged wrongly. What do we mean, people think differently, and then they blame. Even though they don't understand, it feels like, 'You don't understand what I mean!'" said BCL.

Aside from her annoyance, she always remembers the late Reza Gunawan, who used to be her confidant. Reza's words are still remembered and instilled in BCL. Thanks to his words, BCL has grown into a resilient artist.

"But he said, 'We cannot control people's reactions to our choices. But we can control our reactions to their reactions.' So if you let yourself be influenced by other people's opinions, the consequence is stress, depression," she said.

(kpl/vrd)

Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.
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