Inul Daratista Reveals Criteria for Future Daughter-in-Law, Using Her 30 Years of Marriage as a Benchmark

Kapanlagi.com - The household life of dangdut singer Inul Daratista and Adam Suseno, which has lasted for almost 30 years, often serves as inspiration. Behind that harmony, there is a "secret recipe" that she now wants to pass on to her future daughter-in-law.

When met at a culinary event, Inul candidly revealed the main criteria that her son's future wife, Yusuf Ivander Damares, must possess. According to her, cooking skills are a must for a woman.

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1. Skills in the Kitchen Are Key

Adam Suseno and Inul Daratista (cr:instagram.com/inul.d)

For her, skills in the kitchen are the key to making her husband feel at home. This is proven by her own experience in maintaining the integrity of her household.

2. Inul's View on Women

Inul's Charming Appearance (cr:instagram.com/inul.d)

"Yes, it's just that women must first be able to cook. That's it," she said when met in Kelapa Gading, North Jakarta, Saturday (18/10/2025) night.

3. Make Marriage an Example

Inul and Beloved Husband (cr:instagram.com/inul.d)

Inul proudly makes her marriage a real example. After decades together, she always ensures that her husband, Mas Adam, feels comfortable and happy with the dishes she serves every day.

4. Lasting with Mas Adam for 30 Years

Inul Wearing All Pink Outfit (cr:instagram.com/inul.d)

"If you're good at cooking, your husband will definitely be happy. The proof is that Mas Adam has been happy with me for 30 years. Every day I cook delicious meals for him," she asserted.

5. Inul's Standards for Future Daughter-in-law

Inul's Closeness with Her Son (cr:instagram.com/inul.d)

Although she sets quite high standards, the singer of the song Buaya Buntung is surprisingly not rigid. She shows her maternal side by saying she is ready to help if her future daughter-in-law is not very skilled at cooking yet.

6. There Must Be Intention and Willingness to Learn

Inul Daratista and Her Only Child (cr:instagram.com/inul.d)

For her, the most important thing is having the intention and willingness to learn.

"Yes, even if you’re not good at cooking, even if you’re not good at cooking, at least I will help cook," she said with a smile.

7. Inul Becomes a Mother and Wife on the Front Lines

Inul Daratista Exercising with Her Child (cr:instagram.com/inul.d)

The criteria expressed by Inul seem to reflect the traditional values that she still holds dear.

Amid her busy schedule as a diva, Inul Daratista continues to prioritize her roles as a wife and mother at the forefront. It’s a valuable lesson on how to keep the flame of love alive in a household.

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