Irma Purba Initially Didn't Want to Divorce Boris Bokir, Ended Up Surrendering: Whoever It Is, Hopefully Happy

Kapanlagi.com - Written by: Elmira Aubyn Azzahrina

Unpleasant news came from celebrity couple Boris Bokir and Irma Purba. They officially divorced in April 2023 after 5 years of marriage. After the divorce, Boris Bokir recently caused a stir on social media with his appearance with his new girlfriend, a DJ named Jessica Juliantiano.

Recently, Irma Purba opened up about the turmoil in her marriage with the comedian that led to the divorce in a Podcast with Melaney Ricardo. She revealed that she had held back for a year to avoid divorce. However, Boris Bokir had already asked for a divorce 3 times.

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1. Don't Want to Separate

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It is the desire of all couples that a marriage can be harmonious and always together in both happy and sad situations. Irma Purba also has a dream of building a harmonious family with Boris Bokir. However, that dream vanished as time went by.

“Because my parents were not harmonious in the past. So, I have a dream of having a harmonious family. So, I'm like, I only want to get married once,” said Irma Purba with sobs.

She added, “After that, I don't want to separate.”

2. Holding Back Divorce for a Year

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This single mother revealed that it was quite difficult to let go of Boris Bokir. In the end, she willingly let go of her ex-husband for the sake of happiness. That's what we call the pinnacle of love.

“There was a cooling-off period of almost a year. Finally, I said yes (to the divorce), not because I wanted to but because it seems like this person is not happy with me. I want him to be happy. This is not about love, but I think I have loved this person too much. So, go ahead and be happy with whoever you want,” she said firmly.

3. Already Happy and Have Many Dreams

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After going through life after divorce, Irma Purba asserts that she has changed into a more spirited person to pursue her dreams. She does not want to be pitied for the failure of her marriage.

“Even if you're with anyone, I hope you're happy. Thank God, I'm also happy. I am free from the burden that I have felt all this time, feeling alone, without goals, without dreams, and unable to make any decisions. It feels worthless,” Irma Purba explained.

“Now I am someone with many dreams. I am excited about these dreams, I have to achieve this, I have many positive things that I can do. So I am happy. So if someone says they feel sorry for my ex-wife, no. I am actually happier for the moment,” she added happily.

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