It's Been 20 Years, Sarwendah Admits She Doesn't Prohibit Betrand Peto from Dating

"No one has ever prohibited him, he is already an adult, responsible," said Sarwendah when met in the Menteng area, Central Jakarta, on Friday (14/3/2025).

As a mother, Sarwendah has long taught her son the meaning of responsibility, especially as a man.   "Oh that's been the case for a long time, I mean Onyo is a boy, first he has to understand responsibility for himself, because in the end he has to be able to take care of others, later when he is grown up, he has to start being responsible for himself first, then for his younger siblings," said Sarwendah.

As he grows older, Betrand feels a change in the way he interacts, especially with his family. He is now more often invited to discuss things by his mother.

"The change is, maybe I talk to him and he starts to respond, the back-and-forth is typical of young people, sometimes stubborn, tripping, falling on his own, and then yeah," he expressed.

In addition to responsibilities, Sarwendah also sees that her son is now starting to be independent in making decisions. She hopes Onyo can continue to grow.   "Basically, my prayer for Onyo is that he always stays healthy, becomes a proud child, and can love his family, amen," said Sarwendah.

Although he is now an adult, Betrand still feels that his age is not much different from the previous year. For him, only the number has changed.   "20 years old, it feels like I still feel 19 years old. The difference is just the label. It’s like I’m not a teenager anymore but now I’m 20 years old. It turns out I have grown up, my responsibilities as the first child are even greater. I need to set an example for my younger siblings," said Betrand Peto.

Betrand Peto himself realizes that turning 20 is the beginning of a more serious phase in life. He feels responsible for being a role model for his younger siblings.   "My hope for the future is to be more successful, to be a role model for my younger siblings, as well as for my fans," he said.

"I hope I can be blessed with even more abundance at this age of 20 and succeed in the field I am currently pursuing, to create great works that people will always remember," he concluded.