Kesha Ratuliu Admits to Having a Blackhole that Makes Her Comfortable with Violence, Accidentally Mentioned Ex's Name

Kapanlagi.com - Kesha Ratuliu's love story has attracted a lot of attention. When chatting with Gritte Agatha, she admitted that she had experienced violence during her relationship with one of her ex-boyfriends. Fortunately, Kesha, who is getting married soon, said she has been able to move on and live happily.

Kesha once again talked about her dark love story on the program Bisik Bisik Tetangga which aired on MOP Channel on Monday (27/1/2020). There, Mona Ratuliu's niece candidly almost mentioned the name of her ex-boyfriend who had been violent towards her.

"I was walking with a guy, along with my mom. An old friend, haven't seen him in a long time. And then (censored). Seriously, this is the first time I accidentally mentioned it," Kesha said while laughing.

1. To Psychologist

Kesha then told the story of her anger when she found out that her ex was dating another guy. Strangely, Kesha still managed to hold on even though she often received mistreatment. That's what made many people curious.

Kesha herself eventually realized this and only knew about her problem after deciding to consult with a psychologist. From there, it was revealed that Kesha actually had trauma.

"I feel really strange lately. Like being sensitive, getting angry at my partner. Turns out it's because of many things, like my studies, marriage, and business. Until I found the answer why I couldn't let go (of my ex), because I felt comfortable with how he treated me," Kesha said.

2. Undergo Treatment

Kesha Ratuliu © MOP Channel

Kesha then mentioned that in the world of psychology, what she experienced is called a blackhole. She then explained what is meant by a blackhole so that many people who may not realize they are experiencing the same thing can understand.

"A blackhole is an open black hole that needs to be constantly filled. Since I was little, I only knew such affection. Since I was little, I liked causing chaos, I liked making noise. So I couldn't let go of him. I (enjoyed it). Now I realize that I need treatment, I need hypnotherapy. When I'm feeling down, I tend to pick fights with my current partner. At first, the blackhole was fine. But since I met him, it 'became' my blackhole," Keiha said.

3. Finally Able to End

Kesha finally had the courage to talk about this violence after realizing she needed protection. She told her mother, Mona Ratuliu, and Indra Brasco (Mona's husband). Although they briefly got back together, Kesha finally broke free after her ex asked for a breakup and left her. Keisha didn't try to reconcile and now she no longer has any feelings of love for her ex.

Kesha herself said that her future husband doesn't mind her talking about this. Well, I hope you'll always be happy and everything goes smoothly until your wedding day, Kesha!

(kpl/pit)