Kapanlagi.com - Since officially divorcing Eryck Amaral on April 24, 2021, the beautiful artist Shahiyani Febri Wiraatmadja, or better known as Aura Kasih, has spent a lot of time with her daughter, Arabella W Amaral.
The singer of the song Mari Bercinta said that living as a single parent is not easy. Everything is done alone.
"Well, it's tough, maybe the toughest part is seeing other families having family days. There are children with their mothers and fathers, but in my case, it's just me and my child," said Aura Kasih at the Langit Entertainment office in Ciledug, on Friday (10/15/2021).
Although it feels difficult, this 34-year-old woman never gives up on living her life. According to her, she still faces everything with a happy heart.
"It's a bit challenging when I work and take care of my child with the help of the nanny and my father. But it has to be faced because that's life. It makes everything easier and I just accept it," she said.
1. Never Regret
Aura Kasih © KapanLagi.com/Muhammad Akrom Sukarya
Aura Kasih and Eryck Amaral's marriage was relatively short, lasting only about two years. However, during their official marriage, Aura Kasih always boasted about their harmony. She admitted that she never regrets divorcing her husband.
"You must not regret. Because personally, we never know what will happen in the future. I can't be single forever and want to get married again," she said.
As if not wanting to be a single parent forever, Aura Kasih admitted that she does not rule out the possibility of getting married again.
"Well, just relax if I meet the right person and he will become a new father to my child. It's not impossible to get married again," she said.
Because she has experienced a failed marriage, Aura Kasih does not want to rush in finding a life partner. So, is Aura Kasih even more selective in choosing a partner?
"If being selective leads to a wrong direction, then it's just wrong. If it is destined to be like that, then accept it. If we are already very selective but end up in divorce, we can't set boundaries," said Aura Kasih.
2. Still Alone
"It's just delicious as long as there's prayer. Don't ask for the best, but ask for a partner that Allah is pleased with. Because what's the use of the best if Allah hasn't approved it yet," added Aura Kasih.
Until now, Aura Kasih admitted that she still doesn't have a partner or is still single. Regarding the choice of a life partner, Aura Kasih said she doesn't really choose. Even if she later finds a companion from abroad, she will still accept it.
"I'm not closing myself off, still open to it but next time. Right now, my focus is on praying that Allah will approve it. Yes, just a little bit of kindness, if it's a foreigner but good, why not. I'm not like that, when I meet a foreigner, it's fine. Anything
"There is trauma. It's sad and traumatic how my life turned out like this. As time goes by, the trauma eventually becomes a lesson for the future," concluded Aura Kasih.
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Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.