Married to a TNI Member for 10 Years, This is Bella Saphira's Advice to Ayu Ting Ting who will Follow: Starting from 0

Kapanlagi.com - Beautiful artist Bella Saphira recently shared a story and experience of being the wife of a TNI member. The artist has been living in a household with Retired Lieutenant General of the Indonesian Army Agus Surya Bakti for a decade.

Hearing that Ayu Ting Ting will soon become the wife of a TNI member, Bella Saphira also gave advice. Moreover, she has been a Persit mother for quite a long time, so she knows well the joys, sorrows, and challenges of being a TNI wife.

Curious about the advice from Bella Saphira for Ayu Ting Ting, who is now engaged to a TNI member? Find out more here KLovers.

1. Married to a TNI Officer for 10 Years

Portrait of Bella Saphira and her husband (credit: Instagram.com/bellasaphiraofficial)

Bella Saphira began her journey as the wife of a TNI officer ten years ago. In those ten years, she has learned a lot about the meaning of dedication, loyalty, and commitment as the wife of a TNI officer. For your information, the artist married retired Lieutenant General TNI Agus Surya Bakti in 2013. Their marriage is considered harmonious and far from scandalous rumors.

2. Always Ready to be a TNI Wife

Intimate portrait of Bella Saphira and her husband (credit: Instagram.com/bellasaphiraofficial)

Being the wife of a TNI officer, Bella Saphira apparently faces several challenges. Moreover, she and her husband come from different professions. One of the things revealed by the artist about her experience as a TNI wife is the need to always be prepared in every situation.

"That's how it is, you have to be ready. Now we're not married yet, so we don't have to worry too much. And later, her future husband (Ayu Ting Ting) will have a direct commander," said Bella Saphira as quoted from Brownies, (12/02/2024).

3. Accompanying Husband's Duties

Harmonious portrait of Bella Saphira and her husband (credit: Instagram.com/bellasaphiraofficial)

As a wife of a state servant, Bella Saphira admits that she is often left behind when her husband is on duty. Meanwhile, when her husband is on duty, the wife of a military officer must be ready to accompany him on several occasions. However, Bella Saphira revealed that the wife of a military officer can accompany her husband's duties except for those of a military nature.

"If he is on a military operation, I am not allowed to participate in military duties. My duty is to accompany him in non-military matters," said Bella Saphira.

4. Ready to Start from 0 Because Still a First Officer

Latest portrait of Bella Saphira (credit: Instagram.com/bellasaphiraofficial)

Giving advice to Ayu Ting Ting, who has been proposed to by a First Lieutenant (Lettu) named Muhamamd Fardhana, Bella Saphira said that the dangdut singer will start from scratch. This is because Ayu Ting Ting's future husband is still in a young rank.

"It depends on the rank. Ayu Ting Ting's future husband is still a Junior Officer, so he is still very young. InshaAllah, if they get married, they will truly start from scratch," said Bella Saphira.

5. Revealing There Will Be Dynamics in Her Journey

Portrait of Bella Saphira giving advice to Ayu Ting Ting (credit: Instagram.com/bellasaphiraofficial)

Bella Saphira also revealed that as a military wife, there will be several dynamics in her journey. Including Ayu Ting Ting, who has a prospective military husband.

"And there will be many dynamics in the journey," she continued.

Hearing this, Ayu Ting Ting responded with a sweet smile. She immediately looked at her colleague next to her after hearing advice from Bella Saphira. On another occasion, Bella Saphira also advised to keep learning, follow the rules, and have sincerity.

"You have to be willing to sincerely learn, because there are many high-ranking officers, even those who are still in the middle, first officers (Pama), and others, they have their own hierarchy. And I remember that very well. Some wives go to school for Master's, PhD, Doctorate, so doctors have their own duties," said Bella Saphira as quoted from Rumpi, (12/02/2024).

6. Ready to Attend Events

Portrait of Bella Saphira sharing stories about being a military officer's wife (credit: Instagram.com/bellasaphiraofficial)

In this opportunity, Bella Saphira revealed that the wife of a military officer must be ready to attend various organizational events within that scope. This includes after officially becoming a Persit mother, where several activities will be carried out. Especially for large events or activities where the presence of the military officer's wife is crucial.

"Officers, including Ayu's future husband. Then there are big events, her husband must also attend. If Ayu is not there, the commander's mother might look for her," explained Bella Saphira.

7. Ayu Ting Ting Reveals She Will Always Be There to Support

Portrait of Ayu Ting Ting and Lieutenant Muhammad Fardhana (credit: Instagram.com/ayutingting92/ALIENCOPHOTO)

Ayu Ting Ting, who is preparing herself to follow in Bella Saphira's footsteps as a military officer's wife, expressed her determination to always be there to support her husband. Especially after hearing Bella Saphira's advice, Ayu Ting Ting stated that she will always be ready by Lettu Muhammad Fardhana's side.

"I will always be there. I will always be loyal and supportive," said Ayu Ting Ting.

Those are some of Bella Saphira's advice for Ayu Ting Ting, who has been proposed to by a TNI member.

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