Portrait of 6 Years Since the Departure of Ani Yudhoyono: The Ideal Mother-in-Law Who is Always Missed

Interestingly, long before her children got married, Ani Yudhoyono had instilled the principle of accepting her children's partners as they are. Since AHY and EBY were little, Ani had prepared herself to welcome her children's partners with an open heart, without prejudice or high expectations.

One of the most cherished habits by the family is Ani's regular invitation to her children, in-laws, and grandchildren to stay over at their home in Cikeas every week. This routine is not just a family gathering, but a way for Ani to maintain warmth and closeness among generations.

Not only about attention, Ani is also known for being very detail-oriented and heartfelt in showing her affection. Every time before Eid al-Fitr and on the commemoration of August 17, she always orders special kebayas for her daughters-in-law. For Ani, looking cohesive as a family is a small expression of a much greater togetherness.

What makes the relationship with the daughter-in-law feel very close is Ani's attitude of not being too proud to approach first. She often starts conversations, asks about their well-being, and even shares stories and advice in a pleasant way. It's no wonder that her daughter-in-law feels very accepted and appreciated.

Ani is also known as someone who maintains a balance between her roles as a mother-in-law, mother, wife, and public figure. She knows when to be a listener, when to give input, and when to just give space. This is what makes her highly respected, both within the family and in the eyes of the public.

Now, six years after her passing, the memories of Ani Yudhoyono remain alive. Her figure serves as a model for how to build healthy and harmonious family relationships—even within large family structures and in public. The values she instilled continue to be upheld and passed down by the next generation.

Ani Yudhoyono has passed away, but her legacy continues to inspire. Not only for her family, but also for many who see her as a symbol of gentleness and strength of women in Indonesian families.