Portrait of Rey Utami and Pablo Benua Who Have Been Married for 9 Years, Reveals the Ups and Downs They Experienced

"Yes, because the first year is definitely shocking, right? The second year, still positive thinking, still can change," she said as seen in the Insert broadcast, Friday (3/21).

In the third and fourth years, Rey felt frustrated and decided to talk to Pablo to find solutions. They committed to introspection and worked hard to maintain their household.

"In the third year, the fourth year, finally it was like what do you want. In the fifth year, we talked, and at that time my husband still wanted to maintain the marriage. So we committed that if you really want to maintain the marriage, let's change, introspect together," she said.

Even though there were difficult moments, such as when Rey gave birth to her child and Pablo got involved with another woman again. "Next week I will give birth, he made an appointment. After giving birth, things were good again, but that incident happened again with a different woman," she said.

Rey feels grateful because her prayers have finally been answered, and Pablo is now better able to resist temptations from other women. "At the moment we prostrate, cry, pray, after that we get exhausted, tired, and fall asleep on the prayer mat. Maybe Allah hears the prayers, so in the eighth year there was change. I see changes from the eighth year, the prayers have been there since the first year, but they were only answered in the eighth year," said the former host of Sports7.

This 37-year-old artist admits to continuously praying for her husband to remain faithful and to lead a better life together.

"On the side of temptation from women, he can already face it, even though there is another side where we are still praying for guidance, asking Allah for better. I also have to introspect myself as a wife, perhaps sometimes I rebel against my husband without reason, it could be something like that," she said.