Regarding Relationships, Gisella Anastasia and Wijin Have No Plans to Get Married This Year

Kapanlagi.com - The relationship between Gisella Anastasia and her basketball player boyfriend, Wijaya Saputra or commonly known as Wijin, seems to be getting closer. They often spend their holidays together with their respective families. Although their families already know each other, they do not have any plans to get married this year.

"I personally don't have any specific target. As long as we are both ready," said Wijin when met in Tendean, South Jakarta recently.

"We are seeking guidance from God first. If it's meant to be," added Gisel.

1. Still in the Adjustment Phase

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Gisel and Wijin admitted that they are still in the process of adjusting and understanding each other's character. "Not yet, still in the process of adjusting personalities, characters, habits," said Agnez Mo's ex-boyfriend.

Especially for Gisel, who has experienced a failed marriage with Gading Marten. Starting a new marriage certainly involves a lot of thoughts.

"Adjusting characters is something that needs to be carefully considered. I am someone who has been married and failed in marriage. So in my opinion, to be able to stabilize oneself and be ready to dive back into marriage, it requires a process and is extremely complicated. There is no coercion, no rush," continued Gisel.

2. Learning About Commitment

Now Gisel is learning about commitment from her previous failed marriage. Therefore, she does not want to rush into making a decision to get married again. In addition, she also has to think about her only child, Gempi.

"Turns out I just learned that marriage is about commitment. Entering into it consciously, with everything we have considered the pros and cons far into the future. So, we still have to learn about that, it's no longer just a phase of excitement or anything like that, afraid of wrongdoing, not like that. So, yes, it has to be realistic," said Gisel.

"In a normal dating relationship, a girl and a single person get to know each other. But in my case, I already have a child and bring along past life problems, so there are many things to be explored. We can't just be the two of us. So the tolerance has to be much greater. There will be other families, there is Gempi. So it seems like it will take longer to explore compared to young couples. It will definitely be much more complicated," she concluded.

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