Sarwendah Acknowledges It’s Difficult to Gather Her Three Children, Calls Moments Together a 'Miracle'

Kapanlagi.com - Being a single mother with three children who have a plethora of activities certainly presents its own challenges for Sarwendah. Amid her busy schedule, she admits there is one thing that now feels so rare and valuable, which is the moment of being able to gather completely with her three children.

Sarwendah revealed that as her children grow older, the schedules of Betrand Peto Putra Onsu, Thalia Putri Onsu, and Thania Putri Onsu have become increasingly packed and often out of sync. This makes complete moments of togetherness very difficult to realize.

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1. Make Time

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Even so, she remains committed to always making time for quality moments. However, she does not deny that it now requires extra effort to align their schedules.

"Every week I definitely have quality time with them. Now it's a bit difficult if we want to go out together, because their schedules clash," she said when met in the Jatiwaringin area, Pondok Gede, on Monday (22/9/2025).

2. Gathering with Kids as a 'Miracle'

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So difficult is it that this 36-year-old woman even refers to the moments when all three can gather at the same time as a 'miracle'.

"That is one, one what, I would say a miracle when all three of them gather," she revealed.

3. How to Ensure All Children Get Attention

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However, Sarwendah did not run out of ideas. If it is not possible to go together, she has a clever strategy to ensure that each child still receives her full attention, which is by spending time alone with each child separately.

"If there's a little time, for example, if Nia is already at home and I'm on a break, I’ll spend some quality time with her just like yesterday, just the two of us. Then later, if there’s time with Cici, and Onyo has his time alone too," she explained.

4. Grateful That the Children Understand Her Busy Schedule

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She is grateful that her children are now more understanding of her busy schedule. For Sarwendah, what matters most is how she and her children can make time for each other amidst their busy activities.

"As time goes by, the children are growing up, and they also understand that their mother has to work too. So, we understand each other," she concluded.

5. Sarwendah Supports Her Children's Talents

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Although it is difficult to gather her children, Sarwendah is a mother who supports her children's interests and talents.

Without holding back, she provides various types of lessons for her two daughters, Thalia Putri Onsu and Thania Putri Onsu, ranging from academic subjects to the most unique ones.

6. Lessons Taken by Her Children

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On one occasion, Sarwendah revealed the list of lessons that Cici and Nia are taking. One of them is Mandarin language lessons.

Interestingly, Sarwendah, who can actually speak Mandarin, chose to bring in a special tutor.

7. Q&A

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Q: Why is it difficult for Sarwendah to gather her three children?
A: Sarwendah finds it difficult to gather her three children because their schedules are increasingly packed and often not synchronized, making complete moments of togetherness rare.

Q: What kind of support does Sarwendah provide for her children's interests and talents?
A: Sarwendah provides various types of lessons for her children, ranging from academic to unique, including Mandarin lessons with a special tutor.

Q: Does Sarwendah teach her children Mandarin herself?
A: Although Sarwendah can speak Mandarin, she chooses to bring in a special tutor to teach her children the language.

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