Kapanlagi.com - The actions of the late Mpok Alpa's husband, Aji Darmaji (Idung), in submitting a child custody application to the Religious Court sparked a strong reaction from the deceased's family. Mpok Alpa's biological sister, Mpok Banong, feels deceived by Idung's statement claiming to have discussed with the family.
In an interview, Idung's legal counsel stated that there was no conflict and that all decisions had been confirmed or discussed with the family. However, this statement was outright denied by Mpok Banong.
"In the video, it says, the journalist asked, 'Is there any conflict in the family?' No, right," Mpok Banong said, mimicking the response when met in the Ciganjur area of South Jakarta, Wednesday (17/10/2025).
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1. No Negotiation Process

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Mpok Banong emphasized that there was absolutely no negotiation process as claimed. According to her, Idung never discussed the plan for guardianship with the extended family of Mpok Alpa even once.
2. Discussion of Religious Court Issues

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"It turns out that Mpok saw in the video that it was not true at all. Bang Aji never discussed the issue with the Religious Court at all," she stated in a high tone.
3. Calls It a Public Lie

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Mpok Banong feels that the statement is a public lie. She believes that Idung has dragged the family name to legitimize his actions, whereas the actual communication never happened.
4. No Communication Yet

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"That means he is lying to the public, right? He's lying, isn't he? While he hasn't spoken to Mpok Banong," he continued.
5. Feeling Disregarded

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Mpok Banong's disappointment is escalating as she feels disregarded as an important part of the family. As the eldest sister, she should be the first person consulted about her nephew's future.
6. Demand for Clarification and Good Faith

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"In that situation, he said he had already discussed it with Mpok Alpa's family. So, who is Mpok Alpa's family? There is Mpok Banong, Bang Onde, and Bang Eder, right?" he stated. Now, the family demands clarification and good faith from Idung to resolve this issue openly.
7. Q&A Sister Mpok Alpa

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Q: What happened between Aji Darmaji and Mpok Alpa's family?
A: Aji Darmaji filed for child custody, but Mpok Alpa's family felt deceived and not involved.
Q: Why did Mpok Banong feel deceived?
A: Mpok Banong felt there was no discussion regarding the child custody filing.
Q: What are the concerns of Mpok Alpa's family?
A: The family is worried that the rights of the first child, Seli, will be overlooked in the legal process of the custody filing.
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Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.