Teguh Vagetoz Doesn't Want to Get Married yet, Afraid of His Lonely Stroke-Stricken Mother

Kapanlagi.com - For the past three years, Teguh Vagetoz has been focused on taking care of his mother who is suffering from a stroke. This 38-year-old man is even willing to not get married in order to take care of his beloved mother.

"There are many people out there who ask why I haven't gotten married yet, and one of the reasons is because I want to serve (my mother)," said Teguh Vagetoz when met in the Tendean area, South Jakarta recently. 

Since his siblings are already married, he is the only one who can take care of his mother all this time.

"Because all of my siblings are already married, so with the current situation, there needs to be one of the children who can really take care of her full time, inshaAllah I am ready for that," he said. 

1. Lonely Mother Afraid of Being Left Behind

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Teguh Vagetoz also mentioned the reason why he hasn't wanted to get married until now is because he doesn't want to see his mother feeling lonely. It seems that his mother is also afraid of being left behind by Teguh once he gets married. 

"At that time, my mother was already feeling lonely at her house since my sister got married. Then she said, 'Maybe if Teguh gets married later, I will be left behind, right?' That might be the reason why I haven't gotten married until now. It's been a long time since she told me not to get married yet, just like she's afraid of being left behind," said Teguh Vagetoz. 

2. If I Get Married Later

But if he does find his soulmate, Teguh Vagetoz wants his partner to understand his current situation. He will also never leave his mother.

"So if and when I find a partner, I hope that my partner not only loves me but also loves my mother and once again understands my mother's condition," said Teguh Vagetoz.

"Actually, in my heart, even if I find my soulmate, God willing, I won't leave far away. I will definitely bring my mother," he concluded.

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