The Rise of Infidelity and Divorce Cases Among Artists, Zoya Amirin: That's the Importance of Agreed Commitment

Kapanlagi.com - Currently, the issue of infidelity and divorce among artists is gaining attention from netizens. Why not? Until mid-2023 alone, there were 6 celebrity couples who filed for divorce. One of the divorce issues that caught the attention of netizens is Lady Nayoan and Rendy Kjaernett. This divorce issue began when Lady Nayoan revealed her husband's infidelity on her Instagram story. It turns out that Rendy Kjaernett has been cheating and having a relationship with Syahnaz who is none other than Rendy's co-star in a soap opera.

Regarding the current rampant issue of infidelity, it certainly raises many questions from netizens. Especially questions about what drives individuals to cheat.

Responding to this question, Zoya Amirin, as a Sexologist, gave her perspective. She believes that infidelity can occur because many couples may not fully understand the commitment they have agreed upon.

1. The Importance of Commitment

"People like to say that rules are meant to be broken, that's their joke, so is this what makes us always break our commitment, whether it's dating or marriage, and is this normal? In my opinion, it can't be considered normal. So in every relationship, there is a possibility of crossing boundaries, or cheating and so on, now what needs to be questioned is what is actually sought from this affair," said Zoya Amirin when contacted by Kapanlagi.com via telephone.

"The valuable lesson from every cheating case that everyone should learn is understanding commitment," she continued.

Therefore, a commitment in a relationship must be discussed with a partner. Because in committing, the goals and desires of each individual must also be known.

2. Communication, Discussion, and Commitment are the Keys

In addition to discussing commitment, Zoya also emphasizes that what is equally important is agreement or discussion.

"Commitment must be discussed before building a relationship in order not to violate the rules. Many people may be shocked by celebrity cases, even though they have a good appearance, good physical and financial personality, and so on, but they can still cheat, which makes people wonder if they can trust an exclusive relationship. That's why I want to convince people that it is important for us to know and understand what we want and what kind of commitment we can promise," she said.

Zoya Amirin also does not deny that infidelity can occur in any type of relationship without exception. The only difference is that the shock of infidelity news will be more sensational when it comes from the celebrity circle.

"So it seems that ordinary people will definitely still commit infidelity, but if it's a celebrity, the shock of this issue will be bigger than ordinary people," she concluded.

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