Kapanlagi.com - Jessica Rinrada, also known as Jeje, is a transgender person whose birth name is Bagas Rahmatya. As a man, he changed himself into a woman.
Jessica's mother opened up about herself and her husband being able to accept their child's true identity. When appearing on Maia Estianty's podcast, Jeje's mother recounted the beginning when she found out that her son enjoyed dressing up like a girl.
"In middle school, (she) would hide, buy wigs, buy things like that. Later, someone reported it, someone said that (she bought a wig), until (she) hid it in pillows, under the mattress," she said, quoted on Saturday (17/12/2023).
1. Start Wearing Skirts at School
Jessica Rinrada's Mother's Story Who is Accepting Despite Her Child Becoming Transgender / Credit Photo: Instagram/princessjessicaofficial
"The pillow has a zipper, I didn't know that. So if at school or somewhere, they said to wear a mini skirt. I only heard rumors like that. Then I asked, why are you like that? Eventually, it was found out, the wig was discovered," she continued.
Jessica or Bagas then admitted that her true identity is a woman. She was then questioned in the room by her mother and they ended up crying together.
"She said, 'I am like this, Mom. If you don't want to accept it, it's okay, Mom doesn't have to consider me as your child, it's okay, I accept it.' Like that," Jeje's mother explained.
2. Accepting the Choice of Her Child
The mother and child could only cry. Jessica or Bagas' mother then revealed what she said to her son at that time.
"You are still my child, always my child. I want to have you as my child, it's a struggle between life and death. So, you are still my child," she said.
After crying over her child's choice, Jessica's mother finally accepted her child's true identity. Jessica's mother then informed her husband. They agreed to consider this as a test from God.
"So, that's a test for us. We were given a first child with disabilities. Maybe Allah has not released the test for us, for our family," she said.
3. Always Love the Child
Jessica Rinrada's mother revealed that she does not want to abandon the child that she worked hard to have just because of deviant behavior.
"Why would I want to have a child, already have a child, and then throw it away, or kick it out of the house? And what kind of life would they have, living on the streets?" she concluded.
4. Impression of Netizens
Netizens also admire Jessica's mother for accepting her child's change with grace. Many praise Jessica's or Bagas' mother's decision to accept her child's choice.
"This mom is amazing. She's so gentle, even when faced with such a challenge. No wonder Bagas is also gentle," wrote one netizen.
"I salute Jeje's mother, she gracefully accepts Allah's test. Believe me, Mom, Allah will answer your prayers at the right time," added another netizen.
Jeje himself admitted that he wants to return to his natural role as a man. This desire arose after performing Umrah in the Holy Land some time ago. It is known that during his time in the holy land, he wore men's clothing for Umrah.
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Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.