Cita Citata Gives Tips on Choosing Friends: Stay Away from Negative Influences - Likes to Borrow Money

Kapanlagi.com - Having a good circle of friends can certainly bring someone to become a positive person. That is what Cita Citata always applies in choosing friends.

In a recent Instagram post, Cita even gave some tips on choosing friends. It seems that these tips are based on her experience so far.

"As we get older, life should become simpler. The circle of friends also greatly influences our mental condition for the future," she wrote.

Having a good circle of friends can certainly bring someone to become a positive person. That is what Cita Citata always applies in choosing friends.
In a recent Instagram post, Cita even gave some tips on choosing friends. It seems that these tips are based on her experience so far.
"As we get older, life should become simpler. The circle of friends also greatly influences our mental condition for the future," she wrote.

1. Stay Away from People with Negative Influence

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According to Cita Citata, when choosing friends, one should consider the influence they can bring. It is best to stay away from people with negative influence.

"From my experience, stay away from people who have a negative influence on us. (For example, friends who only want to be happy, making us comfortable to the point of forgetting that life is not just about being happy but also having goals)," said the singer of Goyang Dumang.

Not only that, Cita also mentioned about staying away from people who often borrow money. "Especially friends who like to borrow money (they conveniently forget to repay it but they live a luxurious life on social media)," she added.

2. Don't Be Afraid to Socialize

From her experience, Cita feels that many people are afraid to start new friendships due to trauma. According to her, one must still have the courage to socialize because there are still many good people to meet.

"As far as I know, many people feel fear and trauma after experiencing disappointment from someone we meet, then they become reluctant to socialize again. Don't be afraid, there are still many good and sincere people," she concluded.

 

 

 

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As we get older, life should become simpler. The circle of friends also greatly influences our mental condition for the future. This is my advice based on my experience. - Avoid people who have a negative influence on us (for example, friends who only want to have fun, make us comfortable until we forget that life is not just about being happy but also having goals). - Surely many people have experienced being sweet in front of us but talking behind our backs. Hey, good friends will always correct us if we are wrong. - Especially friends who like to borrow money (they have amnesia when it comes to repaying but they live a lavish life on social media) ???? As far as I know, many people feel fear and trauma after experiencing disappointment from someone who disappoints us, then they become reluctant to socialize again. don't be afraid, there are still many good and sincere people. Maybe some of you want to share life experiences about how to find good friendships. You can share it here ???? Have a great day!

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