Not Because It's Not Selling, 8 Reasons Ayu Ting Ting Still Enjoys Being Single for Almost a Decade

Kapanlagi.com - Ayu Ting Ting is still known to be single since divorcing Henry Baskoro Hendarso alias Enji almost 10 years ago. Despite being beautiful, having a skyrocketing career, and receiving support from family and colleagues, these factors are not what made Ayu Ting Ting immediately find her soulmate.

Here are a series of reasons why the singer and comedian has not remarried until now, compiled from various sources.

1. Not a Priority

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Ayu Ting Ting admits that finding a partner is not the main focus of her prayers to God. She believes that if the right person comes, it will happen naturally.

"No, honestly finding a partner is not my main prayer. My main prayer is to be healthy and have a long life, to succeed in maintaining that success because it's the most difficult, and to have a smooth fortune. Because no matter what, as a single parent, I can still make the people around me, especially my family, happy," she said.

2. Still Living in a Narrow Alley?

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So far, no man has seriously approached Ayu Ting Ting. This single mother jokingly says that the reason why men who are serious about being her partner have not arrived is because they still live in a narrow alley.

"If it's about feeling inferior, what's the big deal? I myself still live in a narrow alley. Still a village girl. Yeah, what's there to be afraid of, if you think about it, what should be feared," Ayu Ting Ting said while laughing.

3. Possessive Bilqis

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In a recent show with Wendy Cagur, Ayu Ting Ting told her friend that Bilqis always looks for her when she comes home late. According to her, this could be one of the factors that 'hinder' her in establishing a relationship or dating.

"My child won't allow me to be close to a guy. How can I date, every time I come home, 'where have you been? Where are you?' It's always like that. Every time I come home," Ayu Ting Ting said.

4. Prioritizing Family

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Ayu Ting Ting is known as an artist who is very close to her family. It is not uncommon for her to bring her full team of family members, consisting of herself, Bilqis, Father Rozak, Umi Kalsum, Syifa (sister), Nanda (brother-in-law), and her nieces and nephews. This is believed to be Ayu Ting Ting's 'comfort zone' which has not yet thought of seeking other happiness.

5. Too Often Gossiped About with Men?

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Another suspicion from netizens about Ayu, who is still single until now, is because the singer is often rumored to have a special relationship with several men from various backgrounds. Just mention Ivan Gunawan, Boy William, Wisnu Hardana, Al Ghazali, to Victor Agustino.

6. Rejecting Arranged Marriage

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Ayu Ting Ting admitted that she had been arranged or introduced to several names that came from her parents. However, Ayu has rejected those names for various reasons, one of which is the significant age gap between her and the potential suitors.

"Yes, my father wanted to arrange a marriage for me, there was someone. But his occupation, I mean, he was already established. How should I put it, it's like looking at my father. I mean, he's already old, you know," Ayu said via the YouTube channel EKO PATRIO TV.

7. High Criteria

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Ayu Ting Ting was criticized by netizens for allegedly setting high standards for any man who wants to marry her. One of the requirements is the ability to fulfill her and her family's needs, as Ayu claimed to have many obligations and responsibilities as the backbone of her family.

8. Trauma Cancelled Wedding

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The latest suspicion is that Ayu Ting Ting is still traumatized by her short-lived marriage with Enji and the cancellation of her wedding with Adit Jayusman a few years ago.

"Of course, what Kak Asti means is that there is trauma in starting a new relationship because we want to get married once in a lifetime, right?" said Ayu, quoted via GRID ID on 24/10/2023.

This is a series of suspected reasons why Ayu Ting Ting has not yet let go of her divorced status until now. What do you think, KLovers, do you think there are other reasons? 

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