Kapanlagi.com - Distrust in a relationship can trigger feelings of insecurity, especially if you feel cheated on by your partner. Finding certainty can be a challenge, especially if evidence is hard to come by. In situations like this, many consider using detective services. However, is it really necessary?
In a Live IG event titled 'Kupas Tuntas Perselingkuhan' held by Seven Sunday Films on May 15, 2023 to welcome the release of the movie DETEKTIF JAGA JARAK, Givina Lukita Dewi as one of the cast members stated that personally she feels that infidelity detective services might be very needed by those who are already bound in the realm of marriage.
“For me personally, infidelity detective services would be very useful for husbands or wives who feel cheated on. Because when later, the worst-case scenario, already in a divorce situation, authentic evidence from this detective service will be very useful,” said Givina Lukita Dewi.
Meanwhile, if still in a dating status, Givina Lukita revealed that she is one of those who prefer to directly confirm if there are suspicious things from her partner. She believes that the hidden bad things will eventually be revealed.
1. No Legal Umbrella Yet?
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Although feeling that the services of an affair detective are needed, Givina Lukita still questions how this detective work is viewed in the eyes of the law. Since one of the Affair Detectives in Indonesia who has been active for quite some time was present at the Live IG event, Givina expressed her curiosity. Jack, the founder of Private Detective Jack's Angels, gave an explanation.
"For the Affair Detective action, there is currently no legal umbrella. But even so, we often consult with law enforcement about what should not be done. My team is trained and experienced, so we know what should and should not be done according to the rules of the law," answered Jack.
Jack stated that he has been carrying out this action since 1997 and has faced various interesting cases. Through his profession, he feels he can help many people find certainty in a relationship issue, especially affairs.
2. Infidelity from a Psychological Perspective
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In addition to discussing the profession of affair detectives, this Live IG event also raised the question of what should be done if a partner is proven to be cheating.
Ni Made Diah Ayu, M.Psi, a psychologist from Clinical Psychologist Personal Growth, answered this and explained that after a partner is proven to be cheating, with clear evidence, it is important for us to find out what the next steps we will take.
"After our partner, for example, is clearly proven to have committed an affair, whether the evidence is dug up by ourselves or using detective services, the important thing for us as victims is to think about what next, what decision to make next. Will we forgive or leave," said Ayu.
"Most importantly, don't linger in emotions that lead to depression," she continued firmly.
3. Simultaneous Release on June 1, 2023
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As a note, this IG Live event, which contains a discussion about the need for affair detectives and how to deal with affair cases in real life, involves various communities who participate as participants. This event is part of the launch activities for the film DETEKTIF JAGA JARAK which will be released simultaneously on June 1, 2023 in cinemas throughout Indonesia.
This romantic comedy genre film is starred by several well-known casts such as Marthino Lio, Hana Malasan, Bima Sena, Givina Lukita, and several other comedians such as Debby Sahertian and Unang Bagito.
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Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.