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Likes and Dislikes in Gaining Approval from Prospective In-Laws during the Pandemic

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Kapanlagi.com - Getting the blessing of future in-laws does require a long struggle, especially during a pandemic like now. Even though the dream of getting married has been nurtured since last year, who would have thought that such an uncertain situation would occur and ruin many plans.

It seems that situations like this are happening a lot. There are indeed many things that have changed and require even greater efforts since this pandemic began. But, don't let it destroy your intention to seriously build a relationship with your partner. These ups and downs are often felt by those who are fighting for the blessing of future in-laws. But, believe me, it will definitely bear sweet results in the end with the right steps.

Job and Financial Matters Often Become Questions

Your partner may be willing to start a life together from scratch, but the attitude of the prospective in-laws may be different. Especially in the midst of a pandemic that has dealt a heavy blow to the economy, it is not surprising that questions about jobs and financial stability are starting to arise.

For those who already have a stable job and relatively secure economic conditions, they can breathe a sigh of relief. But for those who are less fortunate, it is better to be honest about personal economic conditions and explain what your plans are to support the family's finances. Starting from making installments for a house to be occupied after marriage, the investments you have, and the promising side income.

Proof of being healthy and free from Covid-19 becomes a question in the big family of your significant other

Before the pandemic, your potential partner's parents used to question your background, family, and status when meeting. However, the current pandemic has brought new requirements, which is proof of being healthy and free from Covid-19! Especially if your future in-laws know that you work outside the city and often interact with many people outside the house.

You can provide evidence that you have done a rapid test or swab to show that you are free from the virus, but it is better to show how you maintain your health. Starting from exercising regularly, consistently wearing a mask, to following health protocols such as maintaining distance or bringing hand sanitizer wherever you go.

The Difficulty of Obtaining Marriage Approval During a Pandemic

The desire to unite your pure intentions and your significant other is hindered by the ongoing pandemic. The reason is that your future in-laws want to marry their child in a grand reception according to their long-held dreams. Unfortunately, this request is difficult to fulfill because it goes against strict health protocols. It would be troublesome if you insist on holding a reception and it turns into a new disease cluster, right?

Now is the time to utilize various abilities to convince your significant other's family to hold a private party. In addition to saving a lot of expenses, the atmosphere of the wedding held between the two families can feel more sacred. Not sure yet? Show the beautiful proof of celebrity weddings that carry the private party theme, so the camer has a clear picture of your dream day.

By holding a private party, you can also maintain your health by disciplining the implementation of health protocols. As for finances, you can start your own business or start saving now. For example, with Nabung eMas in DANA that can help melt the hearts of prospective in-laws.

 
 
 
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What are you waiting for, seek the blessing of your future in-laws and strengthen your intention to step into marriage!
 

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Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.
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