2 Months Before Being Left, BCL: I Can't Imagine Life Without Ashraf Sinclair

Kapanlagi.com - The departure of Ashraf Sinclair certainly leaves a deep sorrow for Bunga Citra Lestari and her family. Surely the woman who is familiarly called BCL did not expect to be left so quickly like this.

Although not long ago they just celebrated their wedding anniversary. Yes, they have been married for 11 years. From that marriage, BCL and Ashraf Sinclair were blessed with 1 child.

This couple also always looked harmonious. There were rarely any negative rumors about them. Even so, BCL revealed that their relationship is still the same as any other couple in general.

"We both struggle, just like any other married couple. We also definitely have problems. We also have happy moments," said Bunga Citra Lestari as quoted from insertlive, (29/12/2019).

1. Being Honest with Each Other

It is undeniable that their marriage has had its ups and downs. However, what is certain is that they always hold on to the principle of being honest with each other.

"What is certain is that from the beginning, Ashraf and I have a principle, which is, we must always be honest with each other, whether we still want to fight together or not. If not, it's okay, we can be friends," said the singer of Cinta Sejati.

Being open with each other is what keeps this couple harmonious. They also believe that it's okay to separate if there is no longer love between them.

"We also have a promise to never stay in a relationship just because of the children. So, we must love each other. There is no problem when children, their parents divorce, we can still make our children happy, but maybe the way is different, yes, maybe not perfect," he added.

2. Cannot Imagine Life Without Ashraf

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BCL also mentioned that she cannot live without Ashraf. Therefore, she hopes to always be showered with love for herself and Ashraf.

"So far, until now, I can't imagine my life without Ashraf. Until now, my view is still like that. So, hopefully both of us will continue to be given the strength to continue loving each other until later," BCL hopes.

3. The News of Ashraf Sinclair's Death

The news of Ashraf's death became known to the public through an insta story uploaded by photographer Jodie Octora. She expressed her condolences. Then, BCL's manager also confirmed the news that Ashraf died due to a heart attack.

It is mentioned that the father of one took his last breath on Tuesday (18/2). "Yes, Ash is no longer here," said Doddy.

4. BCL's Last Moment with Ashraf

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Before he passed away, Ashraf still managed to ask for instant noodles made by BCL. At that time, BCL had just returned from judging Indonesian Idol. Then they went to sleep, but when Ashraf was awakened, he was already unconscious.

Not only that, Ashraf also continued to practice crossfit at a fitness center near his house called Niscala around 7:30 PM.

"He came as usual, happily greeted everyone. He was truly a pleasant person," said Oka, the trainer, when met in Pejaten area, South Jakarta, on Tuesday (18/2) afternoon.

5. Ashraf, a Loving Figure

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They spent two years in a relationship before deciding to get married. From dating to having a child, they always appeared harmonious and free from gossip.

Furthermore, Ashraf was a loving family figure. He once expressed his hope on their wedding anniversary in November 2019.

"Happy wedding anniversary, my dear! Going through thick and thin, ups and downs. Let's spend another 10 years together, Pet," wrote Ashraf.

Now, with Ashraf's departure, may BCL always be given strength and endurance in facing the loss of her husband.

(kpl/gen)