5 Tips Parenting Ala Nikita Willy, Tanpa Baby Sitter? Pasti Bisa Dong! - Prioritize Quality Time with Children

Kapanlagi.com - Written by Vierda Safyra

Moms and Dads, come and take a look at the tips from Nikita Willy, who has recently become famous for her amazing parenting skills. Through her personal Instagram account, Nikita is quite active in uploading parenting education that she applies to her child, Issa Xander Djokosoetono.

Being considered a role model for many mothers in parenting, Nikita only tries to share the knowledge she has. If there is something she shares that doesn't work well, she accepts it. Nikita admits that she is not a 100% content creator mother who always takes care of her child, there are also moments when she gets angry and sad because she is just a regular mother.

Through Denny Sumargo's YouTube channel, Nikita Willy was invited to a podcast to share her stories and parenting tips. Curious about what her tips are? Let's take a look below!

1. Not Using a Baby Sitter

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Nikita Willy's closeness to her mother figure has made her learn and apply parenting from her mother. Her mother figure is a role model for parenting for her. Since childhood, she has been taught by her mother not to be spoiled and to strive on her own.

She applies the same thing to Izza by not using a baby sitter, but there will still be someone to take care of her when Nikita is working or taking a bath. For example, if Izza falls, Nikita will let her try to get up first before helping her.

2. Let the Child Be Independent

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Although Nikita and Indra come from well-off families, they still educate Izza in a simple way. They don't want their child to depend on others, parents, and become arrogant because they feel that their parents can give them everything they want.

By remaining humble and simple, Nikita will let Izza do everything on her own with effort to get what she wants. Because in the end, Izza will surely live on her own and be able to do everything by herself without depending on others.

3. Always There for Children

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Nikita admits that actually a child does not need anything except for the presence of parents who are always by their side. A child does not need many new toys every day, just playing with their parents like 'peek a boo' or anything, will definitely make the child happy.

Izza never buys toys because playing with parents is the right thing according to Nikita. This tip will be much more beneficial and cherished for the child, so it should be made an effort to always be by the child's side whenever possible.

4. Appreciating Children

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Don't think that just because parents can bathe and take care of their children, they can treat them unfairly. This will make the child feel restrained and rebellious, moms and dads.

Nikita admits that she allows Izza to choose what she wants. She still keeps Izza's privacy away from the public because she is still a toddler and cannot determine what she wants. Nikita allows Izza to experience and have her childhood, so that the child does not feel uncomfortable or uneasy with choices that she does not like.

5. Always Stay Calm

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This is the most draining mentally and physically. Taking care of a child is not easy, it requires mental patience and commitment from both parents. On social media, Nikita appears to be a mother figure who is never tired, angry, or sad.

Behind all that, Nikita admits that she is also a normal mother who can get angry and sad. There are times when she is with Izza, she still has to stay calm. After the child is not in front of her, she can cry immediately. The way to overcome it is by telling each other's partner to find a solution and it requires extra patience. As much as possible, negative things should not be presented in front of a child.

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