Citing Inaccurate Facts, Tengku Dewi Disappointed Andrew Andika Spills Reasons for Separation

Kapanlagi.com - Tengku Dewi speaks out regarding Andrew Andika's statement discussing the reasons for their divorce in a podcast. One of the things mentioned by Andrew was the lack of intimate activities between them while they were still a married couple.

The mother of two expressed disappointment with Andrew's admission, which seemed to corner her. Nevertheless, she tries to understand that everyone has their own perspective in addressing a problem.

"I am a bit disappointed with his statements in several podcasts that blame," said Tengku Dewi in the SCBD area, Central Jakarta, Wednesday (4/12/2024).

1. Regretting the Narrative Built by Andrew

Tengku Dewi Putri and Andrew Andika © KapanLagi.com/Budy Santoso

According to her, Andrew's statement is not entirely in line with the existing facts. She also acknowledges that she is not perfect, but regrets the narrative constructed by Andrew.

"In my opinion, maybe I made a mistake, because humans are not free from being imperfect, but that doesn’t align with the facts. I just think, well, maybe that’s from his POV. Everyone is free to have their opinions," said Tengku Dewi.

Furthermore, Dewi feels that what Andrew did by revealing the reasons for their divorce to the public is an unwise action. For her, the reasons for divorce are a personal matter that should not be exposed.

"Spilling some reasons why we separated, things like that, which I think are very private. And I also think it’s not in accordance with the facts," she said.

2. Dewi's Hope for Andrew

Dewi also expressed her hope that Andrew could be more introspective. She believes that, as an adult man, Andrew should reflect more on himself rather than blame others. Dewi even admitted that she had given Andrew several chances, despite feeling hurt.

"As a grown man, he should just introspect. It's not that I haven't given him a chance. Even though he has hurt me several times, I tried to give him a chance to be better. But what I see is not that," she explained.

Despite her disappointment, Dewi hopes that Andrew can become a better person in the future. She particularly emphasizes this because they both have a child who will later see their digital footprint as parents.

"I'm not perfect either. But I mean, at least be better, especially after what happened recently. We're all human, only Allah can turn hearts," concluded Tengku Dewi.

(kpl/far/phi)