Dewi Sandra Reveals How to Resolve Conflict with Husband, Maintaining Family Harmony by Never Leaving the House at All!

Kapanlagi.com - Written by Vierda Safyra

Dewi Sandra married Agus Rahman in December 2011. Their marriage has lasted for 12 years, and they are known for their harmony. During that time, they have not been blessed with children. They believe that they cannot control God's will for them.

Far from negative rumors, Dewi Sandra and Agus Rahman's marriage is still harmonious until now. It is not impossible for conflicts to arise between them. A lifelong relationship that unites two different individuals will inevitably have differences of opinion and conflicts.

However, it all comes back to the couple themselves and how they face and resolve those conflicts. Through the Youtube channel Oemar Mita Syameela, Dewi Sandra and Agus Rahman share their ways of maintaining a good relationship in their marriage. Curious about it? Let's find out below!

1. Not Leaving Home

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Dewi Sandra revealed that every time they argue, they always follow Agus Rahman's frequency. "From now on, you have a problem with me, I have a problem with you, no one escapes from home," said Dewi Sandra.

The meaning of leaving home is leaving the problem and going out of the house or going for a walk. Both of them agree with this principle because a household problem should not be taken outside. Both Dewi and Agus give freedom and give time to think clearly inside the house, but do not allow leaving the house.

"I think the problem in a marriage relationship is that they try to find solutions outside the house. Whereas, a problem should be solved inside. If the problem is with our partner, we sit down and talk about it. We also have to learn that it's not about emotions, but also about learning how to be a good listener," said Dewi Sandra.

2. Understanding Women by Husband

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Dewi Sandra always feels calm and amazed by her husband's figure. Agus Rahman, who always understands his wife's condition, becomes the reason why he can control his emotions during conflicts.

"Mas Agus understands that women are creatures that are very unique and annoying on one side. It is necessary to express a lot of words and he also gives space and time for his wife to express herself. But he is patient enough for that, after his wife is calm, he will hug her and say 'Done? Forgive me, okay?'", Dewi Sandra concluded.

It is from this attitude that their relationship has been successfully established for 12 years. They both give each other freedom to express themselves and learn how to be good listeners to avoid conflicts.

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