Haji Faisal is Very Disappointed with Tubagus Joddy's Post at the Grave of Vanessa Angel and Bibi Andriansyah

Kapanlagi.com - Haji Faisal, the father of the late Bibi Andriansyah, expressed his disappointment towards Tubagus Joddy, who is now free from prison. The disappointment deepened after Joddy posted a photo at the grave of Vanessa Angel and Bibi Andriansyah on his Instagram account.

For Haji Faisal, this action raises many questions and hurts his family's feelings. According to Haji Faisal, his children feel very disappointed to see the post.

"The point is my children are very disappointed. What disappointed them is the post of him going to the grave, very disappointed," said Haji Faisal in the Tanah Abang area, Central Jakarta, Monday (23/9/2024).

Haji Faisal stated that if Joddy really wanted to visit the grave or apologize, it would be better to do it without publicizing it.

"He (Tubagus Joddy) should just go to the grave, cry, roll around, visit, apologize, whatever he wants to do, it’s no problem," he revealed.

1. Worries About Seeking Attention

Haji Faisal is worried that the post could be seen as a form of seeking attention or social climbing (pansos), which would only hurt his family even more.

"Don't post it as if he is, you know, it makes us think all sorts of things about him. Why is he posting, does he want to seek attention, or what, it just makes us think irrationally," he said.

2. Not the Right Time

He also added that if Joddy wants to apologize, it would be better to do so later, when enough time has passed.

"If you want to apologize, just wait until time has passed, let's say both of their lives are long, 5, 10, 15 years, his child (Gala) will still be there. But right now, even I sometimes still cry a lot," he said.

3. The Pain Still Remains

When asked whether the post revived old trauma, Haji Faisal explained that although it is not about trauma, the feeling of pain is still very deep.

"It's not about reviving old trauma, oh, serrr in the heart it feels, oh, it's hard to accept," concluded Haji Faisal.

(kpl/far/ums)