Insanul Fahmi Admits to Having Lied to Wardatina Mawa About Polygamy for This Reason

"Then in 2023, I told Mawa that I had remarried even though I hadn't, hoping that I wanted Mawa to be softer, to speak better, to understand the moment when talking. And at that time, he agreed. He even said yes," said Insanul Fahmi when met in the Cilandak area, South Jakarta, Saturday (20/12/2025).

This method was acknowledged to have worked for a while, as Mawa showed a positive change in attitude after hearing the news. However, that harmony did not last long after Insanul finally admitted that the news of the second marriage was just a fabrication.

"Because he changed, then after that I said that I was lying at that time, I did not remarry. And I hope Mawa becomes better, just like back then. Well, that made me have the perception that maybe it's better to just practice polygamy," he said.

Insanul feels that Mawa's way of speaking often makes him feel pressured, especially when he has just returned home from work tired. The lack of understanding from his wife regarding the timing of conversations is considered the root of the recurring problem.

"The way he talks is harsh. I come home from work tired, and it's tough. Coming home but sometimes not considering the timing. Just like what I see in the Desu podcast. Every year, every day, that's what I receive," Insanul complained.

Now, after the conflict with Inara has truly occurred, Insanul remembers that communication pattern again. He feels that every time the issue of polygamy arises, his wife tends to become better, which then strengthens his intention to really pursue polygamy.

"Every time I say I want to practice polygamy, she gets better. Even at the last point yesterday before this conflict escalated, she actually said, I'm proposing polygamy again, right? Even though I haven't actually practiced polygamy, at that time it was still a process," he concluded.