Kapanlagi.com - The life of Kris Dayanti is now more colorful with the presence of her adorable grandchildren, Ameena Hanna Nur Atta and Azura Humaira Nur Atta. At the age of fifty, the singer of the song Menghitung Hari is thoroughly enjoying her new role as a grandmother, affectionately called Gemmi.
Kris Dayanti shares her happiness in spending time with her grandchildren amidst her busy schedule. For her, playing with young children provides valuable lessons for adults to continue growing and learning to respond positively to things.
"Of course. This way, we can keep growing, right? And don't be mistaken, there are many things we can learn from gathering with grandchildren. Because they respond so much, their spontaneity is immense, and it trains us to respond positively as well," she said when met in the area of Jalan Kapten Tendean, Mampang, South Jakarta, on Monday (24/11/2025).
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1. Differences in Parenting Styles

Kris Dayanti Wears a Black Dress © instagram.com/krisdayantilemos
However, as a grandmother, Kris Dayanti acknowledges the differences in parenting styles between herself and the child's parents, Aurel Hermansyah and Atta Halilintar.
2. Tendency to Indulge Grandchildren

Kris Dayanti Dancing © instagram.com/krisdayantilemos
She realizes that grandparents tend to spoil their grandchildren more than their biological parents, who usually enforce stricter rules. "Yes, if it's clear, it's called a grandmother, right? There will definitely be more leniency from grandmothers," she honestly admitted.
3. Respect the Rules of Children and In-Laws

Kris Dayanti Singing © instagram.com/krisdayantilemos
Nonetheless, this mother of four still strives to respect the rules set by her children and in-laws for the sake of her grandchildren.
4. Consumption of Sweet Foods

Kris Dayanti Performing © instagram.com/krisdayantilemos
She exemplifies one of the strict rules from Atta Halilintar regarding the consumption of sweet foods that she must not violate carelessly.
5. Willing to Lower Ego

The Charm of Kris Dayanti © instagram.com/krisdayantilemos
"Well, that’s why we also have to be willing to lower our ego, not be selfish. Because it’s impossible for the rules made by my children to be violated by me. It means my husband has already warned me, 'Gem, don’t give too many candies.' So, I must not change the rules, the trust that has been given to me," explained Raul Lemos' wife.
6. Still Providing Flexibility

Kris Dayanti Looks Back © instagram.com/krisdayantilemos
Although she must obey her grandchild's parents' rules, Kris Dayanti does not deny that occasionally she still gives some leeway as a form of affection and appreciation.
7. Make the Grandchild Happy

Kris Dayanti Concert © instagram.com/krisdayantilemos
She does this solely to make her grandchild happy when they are behaving well. "That means, it’s okay to occasionally, when they come over, if they are smart, giving a reward is fine," she concluded.
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Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.