Mpok Alpa's Husband Reveals a Heartbreaking Story, 40 Days of Prayer Staying Strong in Front of the Children

Kapanlagi.com - It has been forty days since comedian Mpok Alpa passed away to the embrace of the Almighty. Her departure has left a deep sorrow for many, especially her husband, Aji Darmaji, who now must take on a new role as a single parent for their children.

Met after the 40-day prayer at his residence, Aji shared the significant changes in his life. All the domestic tasks that were once the responsibility of Mpok Alpa are now entirely his to handle for the sake of their children.

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1. Run the Role of Mpok Alpa

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"Yes, that's a routine activity that the late one used to do, and now I'm doing it. Like taking care of the children, dressing them, or feeding them, that's already a tradition from the late one. So back then, I just used to watch, sometimes I would help hold things. Now I'm doing it myself," said Aji Darmaji in Cinere, Depok, Thursday (25/9/2025).

2. Focus on the Children

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Aji emphasized that all of his focus and attention is currently fully dedicated to the children. He is determined to carry out the mandate from the late one as best as he can, taking on the role of both father and mother for them.

3. Can Be Both Father and Mother for the Children

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"The mandate for the children remains my priority, everything is for the children. My attention, my affection is just for the children, so that the children can also feel it. Now I can be a father, I can be a mother, just like that," he said.

4. Save the Sadness in Front of the Children

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Behind his toughness, Aji hides an extraordinary sadness. However, he chooses not to show it in front of the children, because he knows that they feel a much deeper loss.

"I am sad, but the children are even sadder. But I don't show my sadness to the children, I remain happy. After the children don't see, then I do. It's extraordinary," he revealed.

5. Children Wake Up Because They Miss Mpok Alpa

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There are moments when the children's longing for their mother can no longer be contained. Aji recounts a heartbreaking moment when one of his children suddenly woke up from sleep while crying because they missed Mpok Alpa.

"Once, they woke up crying, saying they missed her. I immediately hugged them, they cried and I cried too," he reminisced.

6. The Tahlil Event Went Smoothly

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The recitation or tahlil event took place in a touching atmosphere filled with prayers. The 40-day tahlil for Mpok Alpa was held at her new home, as requested by the husband's family, Aji Darmaji or Bang Haji. Previously, tahlil events for 3 days, 7 days, and 15 days had been conducted at Mpok Alpa's old residence.

7. QnA About Mpok Alpa

1. When did Mpok Alpa pass away? Mpok Alpa passed away on August 15, 2025.

2. What was the cause of Mpok Alpa's death? The cause of Mpok Alpa's death was cancer that she had battled for three years.

3. Where was the 40-day tahlil for Mpok Alpa held? The 40-day tahlil for Mpok Alpa was held at her new home.

4. What was the atmosphere of the recitation/tahlil for Mpok Alpa like? The family decided to hold this 40-day tahlil in a simpler manner and limited the number of guests according to local security guidelines. This was done to maintain order and comfort during the event.

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