Kapanlagi.com - Intan Rizky Jaenab, or better known as Intan RJ, doesn't seem to have thought about finding a new life partner. It is known that Intan RJ's husband, Wahyu Indra Utama, passed away in March 2020 due to a lung disease.
Since her husband's passing, Intan RJ has become a single parent to their two children. After nearly two years of being a widow, this 37-year-old presenter and singer seems to still be content being alone.
"Just go with the flow, destiny and death are all in Allah's hands, just go with it," said Intan RJ when met in the Greenlake City area, Tangerang, on Wednesday (5/1).
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However, Intan RJ seems to be able to start opening her heart if later she finds a new life partner. But for now and in the future, she will still prioritize the happiness of her children.
"In this world, who doesn't want a life partner, but when you're married, especially when you have children, priorities change. My priority now is more towards my children and family. If you list my happiness, having a partner is a bonus for me," she said.
Intan RJ and her late husband © instagram/intanrj22
In addition, Intan also emphasized that she does not have a target for when she will remarry. She even mentioned that she doesn't really think about a partner.
"So I never target (getting married again) 'oh at a certain age, I have to get married', no. What's important is the children, health, education is number one, that's what I think about," she said.
"Their journey is still very long. They are still in elementary school, still in need of extraordinary guidance and supervision. So I won't think about anything else. Let it flow. Go with the flow, flow with the go," she concluded.
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Previously, it turns out that Intan RJ no longer relied on the services of a psychiatrist to cure her longing for her late husband, Wahyu Indra Utama. Intan believed that only she knew how to overcome this.
When met in the Greenlake City area, Tangerang, on Wednesday (5/1), this mother of two admitted that she didn't want to continue consuming medication. She also decided to stop seeing the psychiatrist frequently.
"Now it's not anymore. If I go to a psychiatrist, they will just give me medication, so I have to rely on myself," said Intan RJ.
Intan RJ at her husband's grave © KapanLagi.com/Adi Abbas Nugroho
Nowadays, Intan spends more time visiting her husband's grave. She does this because she hasn't found a solution to overcome her longing for her husband, even with the help of medication.
"Now I spend my time wanting to talk to the deceased at the grave. It's my own desire, because I haven't found a solution like taking sleeping pills or calming medication. I'm calm. The answer is within myself," she explained.
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There are many things that Intan RJ talked about when visiting her husband's grave. Starting from the children's issues to her personal anxieties. Intan considers this moment as if she is confessing to her friend.
"Talking about the children, their development, their school, confessing about myself, it's the same as confessing to a friend, a companion, because he is only a year older than me," said Intan RJ.
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