No Longer Relying on Drugs and Psychiatrists, Intan RJ Chooses to Share Her Longing at Her Husband's Grave to Reduce the Feeling of Missing Him

Kapanlagi.com - Beautiful presenter Intan Rizky Jaenab, or better known as Intan RJ, apparently no longer relies on the services of a psychiatrist to cure her longing for her late husband, Wahyu Indra Utama. Intan believes that she is the only one who knows how to overcome this.

When met in Greenlake City, Tangerang, on Wednesday (5/1), this mother of two admitted that she did not want to continue consuming medication. She also decided to no longer visit the psychiatrist frequently.

"Now, no more. If I go to a psychiatrist, I'll just be given medication, so I rely on myself," said Intan RJ.

1. Frequent Visits to the Grave

Now, Intan spends more time visiting her husband's grave. She does this because she has not been able to find a solution to overcome her longing for her late husband, even with the help of medication.

"Nowadays, I spend my time wanting to talk to the deceased at the grave. It's my own desire, because I haven't found a solution like taking sleeping pills or sedatives, I'm calm. The answer is only within me," she said.

2. Talking About Children

There are many things that Intan RJ talked about when visiting her husband's grave. Starting from the children's issues to her personal anxieties. Intan considered the moment as if she was confiding in her friend.

"Talking about the children, their development, their school, confiding about myself, it's the same as confiding in a friend, a companion, because he is only a year older than me," said Intan RJ.

3. Chatting at the Husband's Grave

How Intan RJ treats her longing for her late husband. (credit: Kapanlagi.com/Irfan Kafril)

The beautiful 37-year-old artist often mentioned her late husband's illness. She seemed to joke with her late husband when visiting the grave.

"So we confide, and then we talk about what happened with his illness. 'Why, sir, don't we talk, it's not fun. You've checked out first, it's not fun,' in short, it's the same grave as my father's grave," explained Intan.

4. Feeling Relieved

How Intan RJ treats her longing for her late husband. (credit: instagram.com/intanrj22)

According to this mother of two, doing this makes her feel more relieved even if it's just talking at her husband's grave. However, Intan couldn't deny that she sometimes wonders if this can affect her mental condition.

"I feel so peaceful, even though sometimes I feel like 'am I crazy?'," said Intan RJ.

5. Getting Support from Friends

How Intan RJ treats her longing for her late husband. (credit: instagram.com/intanrj22)

Fortunately, Intan RJ receives support from her friends. Because for her, keeping everything to herself will not lead to anything good.

"But some close friends said 'never keep it to yourself, just express it if it can make you feel relieved, just go'. But it still needs to be controlled so it doesn't become excessive, it will be weird later on," she said.

"Everything needs to be expressed when it should, but still needs to be controlled," added Intan.

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