Not Having Children at the Age of 45, Lulu Tobing Reveals Shocking Facts

Kapanlagi.com - Although known as an artist who highly values privacy, the life of Lulu Tobing is not exempt from public attention. This includes her marriage with her husband, Bani Maulana Mulia.

Her marriage with Bani this year has reached its 4th year. However, so far Lulu Tobing has not been blessed with children from her marriage. Many netizens are curious about the reason why Lulu Tobing has not had children at the age of 45. She revealed the facts related to this in a podcast owned by Melaney Ricardo.

Curious about the shocking facts revealed by Lulu Tobing regarding her not having children? Find out more here KLovers.

1. Now 45 Years Old

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Having started her career in the 90s, artist Lulu Tobing is now 45 years old. Despite not being young anymore, this beautiful artist born in 1977 still looks youthful. Although she claims she is not an ambitious type, Lulu Tobing is still quite prominent in the entertainment world. It is proven that she recently starred in a feature film titled BALADA SI ROY.

2. Not Blessed with Children Yet

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As it is known, Lulu Tobing has officially remarried a man named Bani Maulana Mulia. Their married life is now more harmonious after deciding to reconcile in 2021 after filing for divorce. Meanwhile, many netizens are focusing on Lulu Tobing's married life, which has not been blessed with children in their 4th year of marriage.

3. Admitting Not Being Patient Dealing with Young Children

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Not having children at the age of 45, Lulu Tobing revealed her reasons. Through Melaney Ricardo's podcast, the actress who played Indah Sari in the soap opera TERSANJUNG admitted that she is not very patient when dealing with young children. Apparently, Lulu Tobing is more comfortable with older children because they are easier to express their feelings.

"I'm not that patient when meeting young children," said Lulu Tobing as quoted from Melaney Ricardo's channel.

4. No Reproductive Problems

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In addition, Lulu Tobing also revealed another reason why she doesn't have children yet. One of them is related to reproductive health. Yes, the actress named Lulu Luciana Tobing has no reproductive problems. Lulu Tobing even admitted that she may not be given a child at the age of 45.

"I have checked my health and there are no problems, maybe I just haven't been given one. I'm already this age and I haven't made any effort. So, just relax," she continued.

5. Not Thinking about Having Children at 45 Years Old

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Although she keeps her personal life private, Lulu Tobing recently revealed that she is not thinking about having children. Especially since her age is considered risky for pregnancy at an older age. She prefers to live her life according to the plan of the Creator.

"Whatever doesn't exist, then it doesn't. It's not that I don't appreciate other people's efforts. But, I'm just not like that. If it doesn't exist yet, then there's no need for anything else, just next, or something like that," said Lulu Tobing.

6. Enjoying Life

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Not having children at an older age, Lulu Tobing is often asked about this by netizens. However, Lulu Tobing admits that she remains calm and enjoys life. For her, she is grateful for what she has without thinking about events that have not happened or possibilities in the future, so as not to burden her mind.

"Yes, if the desire is so strong, it will affect their lives. But, there are still many other things we can do without having children, we can have more time to see the world. We can do things that we haven't had the chance to do at the age of 40. Surely there is a positive side to it, whether God hasn't given it or God didn't give it, there must be a reason. If, for example, we carry the burden and sadness, then we won't be able to do other things anymore," she said.

7. The Importance of Having Partner Support

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On the other hand, Lulu Tobing gives her opinion about the important role of a husband in supporting his wife in every situation. This includes when a wife is unable to have children, understanding and supporting each other is crucial.

"But I truly believe that even if we haven't been given children yet, there are other positive things that we can do to enjoy ourselves as a husband and wife. It's impossible for us to have a partner who doesn't understand and support each other, no matter what happens, no matter what process we're going through, we don't need to feel guilty," she said.

That's the fact about Lulu Tobing who, at the age of 45, still doesn't have any children. What do you think, KLovers?

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