Oscar Lawalata Feminine Since Childhood, Reggy Upset and Hurt by People's Comments

Kapanlagi.com - Reggy Lawalata has just spoken out in her latest video on YouTube. The woman who used to have a career as an actress and soap opera star said that her eldest son, Oscar Lawalata, chose to become a woman.

Accepting this was difficult for Reggy Lawalata and she admitted that she only accepted it 5 years ago. At that time, she and Oscar Lawalata had a conversation and decided to support their son's wishes. The same sentiment was also felt by her younger brother, Mario Lawalata.

However, Reggy admitted that in the past, she was always upset and hurt by people's comments about her son. It's not without reason, as Oscar has had a feminine appearance since he was a child.

1. Tell Oscar to Do Manly Activities

Before being able to accept Oscar's decision, Reggy admitted that he used to always tell his son to do manly activities. From karate to joining basketball training with his brother.

"Yes, I told him to do karate, sometimes I told him to join Mario's basketball. And also modeling, being a model for Aneka (Aneka Yess magazine). I directed him at that time, because he was in junior high school at that time," Reggy concluded, reminiscing about his son's past.

2. Admitting Heartache

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He finally admitted how his past was filled with confusion and heartache, "If asked, yes, I was confused, how people talked about us, how people looked at us when we went to a restaurant, it was painful."

Aware of how people viewed his son, that's why Reggy never let Oscar go out alone, "I feel the pain too. That's why I always accompany him because I know how he feels."

3. Give the Same Love

However, Reggy never treated his son differently. The same goes for Mario, Oscar also receives the same amount of attention and love.

"They were raised the same, played with their siblings, everything was the same. They ate together, received the same love, lived together. So, for me, it was a big question," he concluded.

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