Requested to Expose Someone's Shame, Salmafina Sunan: Just Observe Yourself

Kapanlagi.com - The life story of Salmafina Sunan has been highlighted by netizens several times. Starting from her marriage - divorce at a young age, her decision to remove her hijab, to matters of religion and her problems with her father, Sunan Kalijaga. Despite all of that, Salmafina can learn from her life experiences.

This can be seen when Salma does a question and answer session with her fans via Insta Story. One of the questions made Salma answer at length and explain her views on what happened to her in the past.

1. Does Not Want to Call Himself a Victim

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Starting to eliminate boredom, Salma invited followers to ask her questions. One of the questions she received was, 'What is the meaning of BG [censored], Kak? So there won't be any more victims.' Salma then answered at length.

"It must be remembered, I have never defined myself as a victim, I am a survivor. That's how I see myself. I don't want to have a victim mentality, I don't want to label myself as a victim. I have and take responsibility for my own needs and desires. I practice gratitude all the time. I practice forgiveness whenever," she wrote.

2. If You're at the Bottom Point

Salma then gave wise advice for those who feel down. It seems like she did this when she was in the same situation.

"When you're at the bottom point, you have two choices: You give up or say 'Enough is enough.' And you will start changing your mindset towards something and do things to improve your life. I choose the second option."

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Finally, Salma finally briefly discussed the question she received to expose someone's disgrace. Salma refused to do such a thing.

"Why expose someone's disgrace? Instead of asking me to expose someone's disgrace, it's better for you to observe it yourself, evaluate it yourself," she concluded.

Do you agree with what Salmafina said?

(kpl/pit)