Twice a Widow, Venna Melinda Thanks Her Ex-Husbands - Says She Learned Life Lessons

Kapanlagi.com - Venna Melinda has officially become a widow after the South Jakarta Religious Court legalized her divorce from Ferry Irawan. When met after obtaining a copy of the verdict on Friday (6/12/2024), Venna emphasized that she is not traumatized to marry again despite having experienced two divorces.

"Basically, if trauma is a sign of someone not being grateful. Because there are only two in life, if we are not grateful, we must be patient," said Venna.

Venna stated that her life experiences with her two ex-husbands, Ivan Fadilla and Ferry Irawan, have given her many valuable lessons. "I am grateful to my ex-husbands who have taught me life lessons so that I can be strong," she said.

She also explained that the attitude of being grateful and patient helps her stay calm in life. "If I didn’t have this, I probably wouldn’t be able to speak like this. And it turns out that being grateful and patient makes our lives calm," Venna revealed.

1. Focus on Worship

Venna Melinda © KapanLagi.com/Sahal Fadhli

When asked if she ever regretted what happened, Venna firmly answered no. "No way, I said patience and gratitude can be achieved if we delve into good religious knowledge," she explained. She admitted to frequently attending religious studies both online and offline to strengthen her faith.

Venna now chooses to focus on worship and preparing herself for the future. "A husband can be there or not, but children, when they grow up like Verrell Athalla, they have their own lives. So I have to focus more on preparing myself for when I am called by Allah, what the preparations are," Venna said with deep reflection.

She added that the life journey she has gone through, including her first and second divorces, has made her more mature. "Maybe the focus is that, you don't have to have a partner, a boyfriend. I'm not going there anymore," said Venna.

2. Getting Closer to Verrell

Nevertheless, Venna still feels full support from her children. "Athalla said 'congratulations mama'. Verrell will also accompany me later in his constituency. So it seems like the kids respect me more for being able to go through this without being whiny," she said proudly.

Venna also mentioned that her closeness with Verrell has increased, especially because they often discuss career matters. "Especially like Verrell, he asks a lot about politics. I am very ready to continue encouraging him to work from the heart," Venna concluded.

Through her challenging life journey, Venna Melinda now chooses to live with a stronger conviction, focusing on her children, and strengthening herself through worship and gratitude.

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(kpl/aal/tdr)