Inul Daratista is Proud of Her Only Child: Doesn't Smoke, Doesn't Date Girls, Focused on Studies

Kapanlagi.com - Dangdut singer Inul Daratista recently shared the latest developments about her only child, Yusuf Ivander Damares, who is now entering his teenage years. Ivan, as he is commonly called, is now 16 years old and is in the second year of high school. Inul feels proud of the rapid progress Ivan has made, thanks to the positive educational environment at his school.

"Oh, my son is almost 16 years old now. He's about to be in the second year of high school. So, the treatment at school is very much and it has made his progress more rapid," Inul expressed when met in the Cipinang area, East Jakarta, recently.

She does not hide her gratitude as her son grows into a child who makes the family proud. Inul mentioned that Ivan has been focused on his education and has successfully distanced himself from negative influences.

"So, Alhamdulillah, I'm proud as a parent. Moreover, he has become the hope of parents. He doesn't smoke, doesn't do drugs, doesn't date girls. Basically, he is focused on his studies," she said.

1. No Pressure to Be Anything

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In terms of education, Inul and her husband, Adam Suseno, do not force Ivan to follow a certain path or continue his studies abroad. Inul wants Ivan to be free to choose his own direction in life without pressure. As a parent, she only provides full support.

"I do not force my child to go to school anywhere. I just say, mom has prepared everything. Mom has prepared this, that, and that. Everything is ready. It’s just up to Ivan whether he wants to go abroad, wants an apartment, wants a house, whatever," she said.

"Basically, everything is ready on my end. It depends on where Ivan wants to go. But mom doesn’t force you to be a doctor, you have to be a police officer, no. Because kids nowadays, if forced, they might commit suicide, you know. They don’t dare," explained Inul.

2. Positive Social Circle

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In terms of socializing, Ivan is known to be friends with the children of several artists, including the child of Ari Wibowo. His positive social environment makes Inul feel at ease. Furthermore, Inul appreciates Ivan's school environment, which is free from bullying. She is very grateful for this, as it provides comfort for Ivan to continue growing and focusing on his education.

"He is close to Mas Ari Wibowo's child, and he has many friends. (The school environment) is more positive, there’s no bullying. So that’s what’s cool," said Inul.

Inul also praised the organizational system of the international school where Ivan studies. According to her, the programs available have a positive impact on the development of the children.

"The organization created by the international school is quite good, quite professional, special, and beneficial for the progress and development of today’s school children," she said.

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