Inul Daratista is Proud of Her Only Child: Doesn’t Smoke, Doesn’t Play with Girls, Focused on Studies

Kapanlagi.com - Dangdut singer Inul Daratista recently shared the latest developments about her only child, Yusuf Ivander Damares, who is now entering his teenage years. Ivan, as he is affectionately called, is now 16 years old and is in the second year of high school. Inul feels proud of the rapid progress Ivan has made, thanks to the positive educational environment at his school.

"Oh, my child is about to turn 16 years old. He is already in the second year of high school. So, the treatment at school is very abundant and that makes his progress faster," Inul revealed when met in the Cipinang area, East Jakarta, recently.

She does not hide her gratitude that her son has grown into a child who is a source of pride for the family. Inul mentioned that Ivan has been focused on education and has successfully distanced himself from negative peer influences.

"So, Alhamdulillah, I am proud as a parent. Moreover, he has become the child that parents hope for. He doesn't smoke, doesn't do drugs, and doesn't mess around with girls. His focus is on his studies," she said.

1. No Pressure to Become Anything

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In terms of education, Inul and her husband, Adam Suseno, do not force Ivan to follow a certain path or continue school abroad. Inul wants Ivan to be free to choose his own life direction without pressure. As a parent, she only provides full support.

"I do not force my child to go to a specific school. I just say, mama has prepared everything. Mama has prepared this, that, and that. Everything is ready. It’s just up to Ivan whether he wants to go abroad, wants an apartment, wants a house, or whatever," she said.

"Basically, mama has prepared everything. It depends on where Ivan wants to go. But mama doesn’t force you to become a doctor, you have to be a police officer, no. Because kids nowadays, if forced, might be afraid to commit suicide, you know. They don’t dare," Inul explained.

2. Positive Social Circles

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In terms of social circles, Ivan is known to be friends with the children of several artists, including the child of Ari Wibowo. His positive friendship environment makes Inul feel at ease. Furthermore, Inul appreciates Ivan's school environment, which is free from bullying. She is very grateful for this, as it provides comfort for Ivan to continue developing and focusing on his education.

"He is close to Mas Ari Wibowo's child, and he has many friends too. (The school environment) is more positive, there’s no bullying. So that's what's cool," said Inul.

Inul also praised the organizational system of the international school where Ivan studies. According to her, the existing programs can have a positive impact on the development of the children.

"The organization created by the international school is quite good, quite professional, special, and good for the progress and development of children in today’s schools," she said.

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