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Complete Javanese Primbon About Marriage, Know the Meaning of Neptu and How to Calculate Auspicious Days

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Kapanlagi.com - As Javanese people, you must be familiar with the weton calculation and primbon predictions. On important days, this calculation is usually needed, including when getting married. Complete Javanese Primbon about marriage can be used to see compatibility.

In the complete Javanese Primbon about marriage, you can also find out about the fate of the household and its fortune. If it shows signs of negativity, it needs to be avoided or solutions need to be found to ward off bad luck.

Now, if you are curious and want to learn the complete Javanese Primbon about marriage, let's take a look at the following information.

1. Complete Javanese Primbon About Marriage

Primbon and weton are something that is still attached to Javanese society. When wanting to proceed to a more serious relationship, couples usually look at the complete Javanese primbon predictions about marriage. This is done to see compatibility, auspicious days, and predictions of fortune based on weton.

For those who don't know, weton is a person's birth day based on the Javanese calendar. From calculating the value of weton, it will produce a neptu that will be used as a guide to see several predictions for prospective spouses. Before calculating, you need to know the value of each day and pasaran as follows.

1. Ordinary Days

- Sunday: 5

- Monday: 4

- Tuesday: 3

- Wednesday: 7

- Thursday: 8

- Friday: 6

- Saturday: 9

2. Pasaran Days

- Legi: 5

- Pahing: 9

- Pon: 7

- Wage: 4

- Kliwon: 8

You can calculate the neptu by adding the birth day and pasaran day of each prospective spouse. For example, the prospective groom was born on Saturday Wage and the bride on Thursday Pon.

Groom: Saturday Wage (9 + 4 = 13)

Bride: Thursday Pon (8 + 7 = 15)

The above calculation results can be used to find several predictions, such as compatibility and fortune. For more information about complete Javanese primbon, you can read the next explanation.

2. Meaning of Neptu Weton Wedding

Javanese Primbon is also used to determine the compatibility of marriage. The formula for calculating it is by adding the birth date and the pasaran (a Javanese calendar system) of the bride and groom, then subtracting 9.

Male: Sabtu Wage (9 + 4 = 13 - 9 = 4)

Female: Kamis Pon (8 + 7 = 15 - 9 = 6)

For the two individuals above, the calculation results are 4 and 6. The meaning of the neptu weton (a Javanese belief) for this marriage can be seen in the following explanation.

1 and 1 = their household will run well, be happy, and love each other.

1 and 2 = their household will be peaceful and fine.

1 and 3 = their household will be strong, but their fortune will be far away.

1 and 4 = their household will be restless and experience many misfortunes.

1 and 5 = their household will not last and will end in divorce.

1 and 6 = their household will face many difficulties in life.

1 and 7 = their household will have quite a few enemies.

1 and 8 = their household tends to experience a miserable life.

1 and 9 = their household becomes a place of shelter and protection.

2 and 2 = their household will be safe and have abundant fortune.

2 and 3 = one of them will die first.

2 and 4 = their household will face various temptations.

2 and 5 = their household will experience many dangers.

2 and 6 = their household will quickly become wealthy.

2 and 7 = many of their children will die.

2 and 8 = their household will have sufficiency and abundant fortune.

2 and 9 = their household will have plenty of fortune.

3 and 3 = their household will be impoverished in their lives.

3 and 4 = their household will experience many misfortunes.

3 and 5 = divorce will occur in their household quickly.

3 and 6 = their household will receive many blessings.

3 and 7 = their household will face misfortune and danger.

3 and 8 = one of their households will die first.

3 and 9 = their household will have plenty of fortune.

4 and 4 = their household will often be plagued by illness.

4 and 5 = their household will be surrounded by many temptations.

4 and 6 = their household will have abundant fortune flowing in.

4 and 7 = their household will live in poverty and misery.

4 and 8 = their household tends to face various obstacles.

4 and 9 = one of them will experience defeat.

5 and 5 = their household will receive endless luck.

5 and 6 = their household will easily find fortune.

5 and 7 = their household is the source of daily livelihood, it will always be there.

5 and 8 = their household will face danger and obstacles.

5 and 9 = their household will receive plenty of fortune.

6 and 6 = their household will experience many misfortunes.

6 and 7 = their household will live in harmony and peace.

6 and 8 = their household will have many enemies.

6 and 9 = their household will experience life's hardships.

7 and 7 = the wife will be more dominant.

7 and 8 = their household will face misfortune due to their own actions.

7 and 9 = their household will last eternally.

8 and 8 = their household will be pleasant and liked by others.

8 and 9 = their household will experience many misfortunes.

9 and 9 = their household will find it very difficult to obtain fortune.

3. How to Calculate Auspicious Wedding Days

In addition to finding compatibility and fortune as mentioned above, the complete Javanese horoscope for marriage also includes ways to find auspicious wedding days. The calculation of auspicious wedding days can be done by adding the neptu of the groom and the neptu of the bride, then dividing by 5. The remaining number that cannot be divided can be used to determine compatibility.

Groom: Saturday Wage (9 + 4 = 13)

Bride: Thursday Pon (8 + 7 = 15)

(13 + 15) : 5 = 28 : 5 = 5 remainder 3.

It can also be done by calculating the days and pasaran of both the bride and groom, adding the neptu of the wedding day, then subtracting 3. The result will indicate predictions as follows.

1 = not good, quickly separate in life or death.

2 = good, live harmoniously, peaceful, and respected.

3 = not good. Their household will be chaotic and both can die.

4. The Best Months to Get Married According to Javanese Primbon

In addition to the belief in Javanese Primbon for choosing an auspicious wedding day, Javanese people also hold beliefs about the best months to get married. Conversely, there are also months that should be avoided as they are believed to have an impact on the married couple's household life.

So, it is important for you to understand information about the months considered good for getting married according to Javanese Primbon. Here is an explanation about the recommended months to get married:

1. Months to be avoided: Suro, Maulud, Puasa, and Dulkaidah.

2. Allowed/recommended months: Sapar, Bakda Maulud, Bakda Jumadil Awal, and Syawal.

3. Highly recommended months: Jumadil Akhir, Rajab, Ruwah, and Besar.

5. Javanese Traditional Wedding Rituals

Weddings in Javanese tradition are marked by a series of ceremonies that are rich in symbolic and spiritual meaning. In order to achieve a harmonious household, various rituals or ceremonies are held in Javanese weddings. Here are some of the main rituals in Javanese traditional weddings:

1. Siraman

The siraman ceremony is a ritual performed by both the bride and groom. In this ritual, the couple will be bathed by their respected family members or elders. The water used is taken from seven different water sources, with the aim of cleansing the body and mind before entering into a new married life.

2. Midodareni

Midodareni is a ceremony that is held one day before the wedding. In this ritual, the bride and groom's families prepare tumpeng or special dishes. For the Javanese people, this ritual is a sign of gratitude for the blessings received and a prayer for a smooth wedding ceremony.

3. Panggih

Panggih is a ceremony that marks the meeting between the two families of the bride and groom. It is usually held in a special hall or room that has been prepared, where both sides declare their agreement to unite the two families through marriage.

4. Pawiwahan

Pawiwahan is the term for the main event of Javanese traditional weddings. It involves a series of ceremonies such as the panggih procession, starting from the acceptance of the bride by both families, the bride's chamber procession, the bride's bathing procession, and other ceremonies that involve customs and traditions in uniting the couple.

5. Seserahan

Seserahan is a ritual where the families of the bride and groom give odd-numbered gifts as a symbol of agreement and approval of the marriage. In this ritual, the bride's family prepares tumpeng or special dishes. For Javanese people, this ritual is a sign of gratitude for the blessings received and a prayer for the smooth running of the wedding ceremony.

3. Panggih

Panggih is a ceremony where the two families of the bride and groom meet. Usually held in a pendopo or special room that has been prepared, where both parties declare their agreement to unite the two families through marriage.

4. Pawiwahan

Pawiwahan is the term for the main event of Javanese traditional wedding. There are a series of ceremonies such as the panggih procession starting from the acceptance of the bride by both families, the panggul pengantin procession, the siraman pengantin procession, and other ceremonies involving customs in uniting the couple.

5. Seserahan

Seserahan is a ritual where the bride's family gives odd-numbered gifts as a symbol of agreement and approval of the marriage. This dowry consists of items such as traditional clothing, food, or jewelry.

6. Sugihan

A ceremony to pray for the safety, luck, and fertility of newlyweds.

Well, KLovers, that's the complete explanation of Javanese wedding customs that you can learn.

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