Kapanlagi.com - After intense communication through chat, the first date becomes the next stage, an important moment when approaching a potential partner. If successful, it can help you shed your single status. But if it fails, you'll have to stop and look for other potential candidates from scratch.
This is what makes the first date very important, so everything must be done with thorough preparation. If you're planning a first date with your crush, there are several things to consider so you don't make him 'hot' and scare him away. What are they?
1. Make Sure Your Appearance is Neat

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Even though there is a saying don't judge a book by its cover, this does not apply to you who are going on a first date. The first thing you need to prepare with great attention when going on a first date is your appearance. Make sure you wear neat clothes that are pleasant to look at to create a good first impression.
This appearance is very important to appreciate yourself as well as your potential partner. You don’t need to wear overly formal clothes; a casual outfit is fine as long as it looks neat and not careless.
2. Don't Suggest Splitting the Bill if You Don't Want to Make Them Feel Awkward

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The concept of split bill on the first date often becomes a debate on social media. So, it’s best to avoid this if you don’t want to make them feel awkward. It's not just about that, but it can also show how much effort you’re putting in to make a good first impression in the eyes of your crush.
Split bill is certainly acceptable during a date, but it’s more appropriate at the next level once you officially become a couple. At that next stage, you and they can freely discuss finances, especially if the relationship has reached a serious level. But that’s for later; if it’s still the first date, there’s nothing wrong with showing more effort as a guy to win their heart.
3. Don't Let Bad Breath Happen!
The first date is usually a moment to get to know each other personally after only chatting via text. So, make sure you don’t have bad breath! Bad breath is not just about the cleanliness of your teeth and mouth, but it can also be a sign of other health issues. For example, a dry throat caused by heat in the body.

If you are experiencing symptoms of heat in the body such as a hot and dry throat, it’s best not to let the condition worsen as it can cause bad breath. Immediately consume Adem Sari Sachet 2x a day which is effective for addressing symptoms of heat in the body such as a dry throat, canker sores, and bad breath.
Adem Sari Sachet is very economical because it is affordable and easy to find at shops, mini markets, pharmacies, or e-commerce by clicking here. Make sure to always have Adem Sari Sachet on hand to tackle symptoms of heat in the body that can ruin your first date moment!
4. Take Her Home, Don't Let Her Go Home Alone by Ojol

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As soon as the first date ends, don’t just let her go home alone by ojol. Show that you can be a reliable guy by taking her home to her place.
You can use this journey home to build a closer connection with her, for example, to get to know her family or other personal things that haven’t been discussed during the date. By taking her home, you can also enhance your credibility in her eyes as someone responsible.
Don’t let the first date be ruined by trivial matters due to lack of preparation. Now is the time to smooth out your approach to successfully win her heart!
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Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.