Already 14 Years Widow, Risma Nilawati Openly Reveals the Reason - Calls Her Child More Possessive

Kapanlagi.com - Former wife of Ferry Maryadi, none other than artist Risma Nilawati, is known to still enjoy being a widow for 14 years. Apparently, the mother of Harleyava Princy Maryadi revealed the reason behind the decision to remain single.

The film actress KIAMAT SUDAH DEKAT revealed that she considered many things to re-enter the bond of marriage. The failure of her previous marriage made Risma Nilawati more cautious in choosing a partner.

Risma Nilawati's confession regarding her decision to still enjoy being a widow was revealed when she appeared on the program Rumpi No Secret. Find out more here KLovers.

1. 14 Years as a Widow

The latest portrait of Risma Nilawati (credit: Instagram.com/neng_risma/@tyan86_)

Risma Nilawati officially divorced Ferry Maryadi in 2009. Since then, she has been a widow for 14 years. However, Risma chooses not to rush into remarrying. Her decision to continue living as an independent widow is not only for her own happiness but also for the sake of her child.

"For 14 years, if there was a guy who wanted to enter my life, suddenly you start controlling things, changing my rules with Leya, wait first, let's talk first," said Risma Nilawati as quoted from Rumpi No Secret.

2. Do Not Want to Experience Failed Marriage Again

Risma Nilawati reveals the reason she is still happy being single (credit: Instagram.com/neng_risma/)

Having experienced a failed marriage, Risma Nilawati admits that she does not want to go through the same situation for the second time. Firmly, she expresses her reluctance to repeat her past story. Risma Nilawati also carefully prepares herself with various considerations in choosing a partner.

"I don't want it to happen again. So I'm really preparing for it," she added.

3. Difficult to Fall in Love

Facts about Risma Nilawati mentioning the difficulty of falling in love (credit: Instagram.com/neng_risma/)

Apparently, there is another reason why Risma Nilawati is still content being single after years of being a widow. She admits that it is not easy for her to open her heart to someone new. In fact, when building a connection with a man, Risma needs a considerable amount of time. This beautiful artist, born in 1984, also does not want to rush into making decisions that involve the heart.

"Even for dating a guy, the courtship process is long for me. I can be close to a guy for a year and I might not even accept him. I find it difficult to fall in love with someone," said Risma Nilawati.

4. The Child Participates in the Selection

Portrait of Risma Nilawati and her child (credit: Instagram.com/neng_risma/)

Risma Nilawati involves her child in choosing her life partner. She even seeks advice from her daughter when a man approaches her. In addition, Risma Nilawati admits that her daughter is more possessive and selective in observing her mother's relationship with someone new.

"She participates in the selection. She is very possessive. She asks about the chat replies, how they met, when they met," explained Risma Nilawati.

That is the reason why Risma Nilawati is still content being single after years. What do you think, KLovers?

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