Answering Betrand Peto's Concerns, Sarwendah Has No Plans to Remarry After Divorcing Ruben Onsu

“As for the children, the separation of parents will cause trauma for them, even if it's just a little,” said Sarwendah when met in the Tangerang area on Tuesday (29/10/2024).

According to her, even though the divorce has just happened, Betrand shows a reaction that is normal for a child who is still trying to accept this reality. Sarwendah also revealed that the children often ask whether she will remarry.

However, at this time Sarwendah chooses to focus on giving them time to heal their hearts and adapt to the new situation.   “It’s only been a short while. The children are asked by their parents if they will remarry, how could that be allowed? They need time to heal their hearts first, everything needs time to settle,” she added.

The sense of loss experienced by Betrand and his two siblings, Sarwendah explained, is clearly evident in their daily lives. According to her, it is normal for them to hope to stay together as a complete family.   “I just found out, yes I know they might feel a sense of loss. The children want to be together. But not everything goes according to their wishes,” she said.

Nevertheless, Sarwendah ensures that she and Ruben maintain good communication for the sake of the children. She also appreciates Ruben's attitude of being present as a father who fully supports their children's needs.   “People get married well, if they separate, it should be done well,” said Sarwendah.

On the other hand, Ruben Onsu also continues to show his responsibility as a father. Sarwendah stated that Ruben provides regular financial support for their children. “For the children, full support, Koko gives a monthly allowance for the kids. They are our children together,” she revealed.

On the other hand, Ruben Onsu also continues to show his responsibility as a father. Sarwendah stated that Ruben provides regular financial support for their children. “For the children, full support, Koko gives a monthly allowance for the kids. They are our children together,” she revealed.

She hopes that the public will not look for negative things in the good relationship that she and Ruben maintain. Sarwendah also shared her views on divorce and the importance of staying positive. Although she chose not to give specific tips, she hopes other couples can learn from her journey.   “Don’t get divorced, I’m not brave enough to give tips. If you can be happy, then be happy,” she concluded.