Household Ever Disturbed by Pelakor, Nafa Urbach: Don't Make Husband an Idol

Kapanlagi.com - It cannot be denied, Nafa Urbach admits that when she was still married to Zack Lee, they were bothered by many third parties. At that time, Nafa Urbach chose to surrender to God.

"I ran to God. I really prayed continuously for them, asking for forgiveness so that they would be forgiven by God and I also asked God to comfort my heart," said Nafa Urbach when contacted by Kapanlagi, on Friday (24/4).

"So that I have the right heart response, so that my heart response is not angry. Because it's emotional, it goes up and down. I still have chats with the third parties, there are so many," she continued.

1. Appreciate Zack Lee's Recognition

Although they eventually divorced, Nafa Urbach still admires what Zack Lee did at that time. So, their relationship is still good until now.

"(Zack Lee) He is very aware of his actions. He acknowledges his actions. That is something extraordinary. He still says that it is his flaw, he apologizes repeatedly, he regrets his actions, Zack is still like that. I really appreciate what Papa Mikha did, it was gentle. Because actually, he has a very good heart," she said.

2. Challenges in Married Life

Nafa Urbach © KapanLagi.com - Bayu Herdianto

Nafa Urbach also said that every long-established marriage will surely have its challenges. For her, these challenges are one way to overcome boredom.

"It's because they are men. In a marriage, if it has been too long, there will surely be boredom, there won't be any more challenges. That's actually the challenge, to have a married life where we love each other every day, there's no boredom, and we love each other. The only way to save it is through our intimate relationship with God," said Nafa Urbach.

3. Not Making Husband an Idol

Learning from her failed marriage, Nafa Urbach also does not want to make her husband an idol. She admits to surrendering everything to God.

"This is about not being able to make a husband an idol. In the end, the husband is more important than the children. Because of the husband's infidelity or the husband having a third party, our lives become chaotic, our work becomes chaotic, everything becomes a mess and in the end, we lose faith," said the mother of one child.

"I don't want to make my husband an idol. Let it be God's business. God is fair. He will educate His people according to what they have done in this world. My mindset had to change at that time," she concluded.

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