How Ruben Onsu Avoids the Psychological Impact on His Children After Being Defamed, Keeps Thalia and Thania Busy

Kapanlagi.com - Amid police reports regarding defamation and cyberbullying perpetrated by certain accounts on social media, the main focus of Ruben Onsu right now is to protect the psychological well-being of his children, especially Thalia and Thania. He is working hard to ensure that his young daughters are not affected by the negative content circulating.

As a father, Ruben certainly hopes that his children do not read or see the defamation directed at their family. He is taking various measures to ensure that there is minimal psychological impact on his children after the irresponsibly spread defamation.

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1. Keeping Children Busy After School

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"Yes, hopefully, she won't read anymore," said Ruben Onsu at the Metro Jaya Police, Thursday (31/7/2025).

One of the ways Ruben does this is by keeping his children busy with various positive activities after school. This way, their time to play with gadgets becomes very limited.

"Fortunately, she has a lot of activities. After she comes home from school, she has many activities. And she only holds the phone for a short time," said Ruben.

2. Monitoring Children's Social Media Access

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Ruben Onsu chooses to limit his children's access to social media and news that could be harmful. Ruben added that even though his daughter holds a phone, she usually does not use it to browse social media. His child's habit is to use gadgets more for creative activities like drawing.

"Well, usually when she holds the phone, it's more for drawing. So when she opens the phone, it's usually to write something," revealed Ruben.

3. Creating a Positive Environment

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The former husband of Sarwendah hopes that this good habit continues so that his children do not encounter inappropriate content. As a parent, he feels it is his duty to keep protecting them. He wants to ensure that his children are not exposed to information that could make them feel pressured.

"So they don’t, they don’t scroll. No, hopefully if we just keep guarding, like that," he said.

4. Ruben Onsu's Disappointment

Ruben's disappointment peaked because this case involved underage children. Moreover, according to him, the perpetrator deliberately edited and cut the video to create a false narrative.

"So for me, I am very disappointed because there are children involved, you see. Especially since he cropped it, he deliberately edited it," said Ruben.

The perpetrator's increasingly defiant attitude after being reprimanded is the main reason Ruben is taking legal action. He feels this is the only correct way to resolve the issue.

5. QnA About the Reporting Case of Ruben Onsu

What is the impact of slander on Ruben Onsu's children? Slander can affect the psychology of children, making them feel anxious and stressed.

How does Ruben Onsu protect his children? Ruben Onsu limits his children's access to negative content and maintains open communication.

Why is children's mental health important to Ruben Onsu? Children's mental health is important to maintain so that they grow into strong and confident individuals.

What does Ruben Onsu do to create a positive environment? Ruben Onsu creates a home atmosphere filled with love and emotional support, being aware of the serious impact of the circulating slander.

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