Irvan Mansyur S Apologizes for the Mistakes of the Late Mother

For her children, taking care of their mother in difficult times is an invaluable form of devotion. Irvan feels grateful to have accompanied his mother until the very end of her journey in this world."It's extraordinary. Well... yes, for us, Mother is... a figure that is very, well... very special to all our lives," said Irvan Mansyur at the funeral home on Monday (5/1/2026).

Due to her severe illness, the deceased did not leave a last message verbally. Hj. Rosidah had experienced difficulty speaking for several months, so family communication was limited to basic matters, such as when she wanted to eat.

"Messages... there are none. Because she was indeed... well, her illness was quite severe. So speaking was already quite difficult. Over the past year, it has been hard to talk. Especially in the last three to four months, she could only say one or two words. Mostly, 'Do you want to eat, Mother?', 'Yes'. That was it, not much more because it was already severe. I think that's all," Irvan explained.

As a representative of the family, Irvan conveyed an apology to all relatives and friends who knew the deceased. He hopes that the door of forgiveness will be opened as wide as possible for his mother so that her journey to the best place by His side may be more peaceful.

"So, I can only say thank you very much and ask for the door of forgiveness to be opened as wide as possible for the mistakes of my mother, whether intentional or unintentional. Also from us, the extended family of Father H. Mansyur S, we sincerely apologize if there are any mistakes or lapses on our part as ordinary humans. Please open the door of forgiveness as wide as possible," concluded Irvan.

The family believes that the devotion they have given so far is enough as their final expression of love. There are no unfulfilled wishes because love always flows between them every day.

"I think at his age, Alhamdulillah we give love, affection, and devotion to our parents. Or the Father gives his love and affection to his Wife. So I feel we have given enough affection to one another. Because the feeling of love and affection for each other in the family never fades," he concluded.