Just Revealed, Abidzar Al Ghifari's Biggest Regret Over the Death of Ustaz Jefri Al Buchori

Kapanlagi.com - The passing of Ustaz Jefri Al Buchori in 2013 left a deep sorrow for the family, including Abidzar Al Ghifari. Umi Pipik shared stories about her son's condition after the departure of his father.

In a podcast ALVIN in LOVE, Umi Pipik revealed a rarely highlighted story after the passing of her late husband. At that time, their three children were still very young. It was revealed that Abidzar, as the second child, harbored great regrets regarding the last moments with his father.

Moreover, various unexpected trials came, starting from the loss of his grandfather to the incident of their house burning down. Curious about the complete story? Check it out here, KLovers.

1. Feeling Guilty

Abidzar Al Ghifari feels guilty about his father's passing (credit: Instagram.com/_ummi_pipik_)

Umi Pipik recounts the condition of her son after the passing of Ustaz Jefri Al Buchori. At that time, Abidzar Al Ghifari was only 12 years old. Behind his toughness, Abidzar harbors feelings of guilt after his father's departure. Regret comes because he feels that if he hadn't taken Umi Pipik to buy shoes, his father might not have gone out riding his motorcycle that day. In fact, Abidzar even slammed his head against the wall, expressing his deep sense of guilt.

"When he was declared dead, Abi banged his head against the wall. He said, 'this is because I didn’t take Umi to buy shoes, Abi wouldn’t have gone riding the motorcycle'," said Umi Pipik as reported by ALVIN in LOVE.

2. Blaming Oneself

Umi Pipik's story about her child's condition after the passing of her late husband (credit: Instagram.com/_ummi_pipik_)

This regret has become a deep wound in Abidzar's heart, making it difficult for him to accept reality after his father's departure. According to Umi Pipik, her son often blames himself. As is known, Ustaz Jefri Al Buchori reportedly passed away in 2013 after a single-vehicle accident.

"He always blames that. Maybe that's his wound, he always blames it on himself. 'If I hadn’t taken Umi to buy shoes, maybe Abi wouldn’t have gone riding the motorcycle'," she continued.

3. Umi Pipik Strengthens Her Child

Portrait of Umi Pipik strengthening her child (credit: Instagram.com/_ummi_pipik_)

As a mother, Umi Pipik never tires of providing support to her children, including Abidzar. Moreover, Abidzar often blames himself after the passing of Ustaz Jefri Al Buchori. In her explanation, Umi Pipik continues to reassure Abidzar that the departure of Ustaz Jefri Al Buchori is God's destiny.

"I told him, that's already qadarullah, that's how Allah's way is because indeed your father belongs to Allah," said Umi Pipik

4. The Loss of Grandfather and House Fire

Abidzar Al Ghifari experienced the loss of his grandfather and a house fire incident (credit: Instagram.com/_ummi_pipik_)

One year after the passing of Ustaz Jefri Al Buchori, Abidzar's family faced another heavy trial. This is because Abidzar's grandfather also passed away shortly after Ustaz Jefri Al Buchori's departure. Not only that, this celebrity family also experienced an unexpected event in the form of a house fire. This incident made Abidzar question God's love even more.

"Not to mention his grandfather, then also the house burned down, he also experienced that. There was a moment when he asked, 'Umi, does Allah not love us?'," explained Umi Pipik.

5. Trying to Make the Child Accept with Sincerity

Portrait of Umi Pipik trying to make her child sincere (credit: Instagram.com/_ummi_pipik_)

Umi Pipik is trying to make her child sincerely accept all the trials in life. She explains that the situation currently happening in her family is a form of God's love. This includes the house fire incident, in which Umi Pipik and her four children managed to escape safely. Additionally, Umi Pipik uses the analogy of coffee beans, eggs, and carrots to illustrate how life's tests can shape a person.

"When the house caught fire, who said that God doesn't love us? If God didn't love us, we wouldn't have survived this fire. Where would we live, how would we manage? This is God's way of saving us even if we have to jump from the second floor," Umi Pipik stated.

"I tell my child, 'Sometimes what happens to us is not what we desire, it is beyond our expectations. But, it's like God is shaping you'," she continued.

6. Starting to Make Peace with Himself

Portrait of Abidzar Al Ghifari starting to make peace with himself (credit: Instagram.com/_ummi_pipik_)

Slowly, Abidzar began to understand that everything happening is part of Allah's plan. He started to accept reality sincerely and learn to make peace with himself. Advice from his mother also helped Abidzar to accept the various things happening in his life.

"Finally, he understands that oh yes, this is a test. He is in the process of accepting that, to make peace with his heart, to make peace with himself," said Umi Pipik.

7. Forming a Strong Character

The portrait of Abidzar Al Ghifari begins to form a strong character (credit: Instagram.com/_ummi_pipik_)

The various life tests that Abidzar experienced shaped his character to become stronger and more mature. He learned not to blame himself anymore and started to make peace. It’s no surprise that now Abidzar is known as a strong figure and is increasingly shining as he forges a career in the entertainment world.

"That’s what ultimately formed his character to be strong," concluded Umi Pipik.

That is the story of Abidzar's regrets after the passing of his late father. Stay tuned for the latest news about celebrities only at Kapanlagi.com. If not now, when?

(kpl/nlw)