Now Hijrah, Aby Respati Reveals the Worst Bullying When Appearing Like a Woman

Kapanlagi.com - Having a past that was looked down upon due to a feminine appearance like a woman, now Aby Respati has received guidance and has transformed into a typical man.

All of his habits and his lifestyle that resembled a woman, Aby revealed on his Bisik-Bisik Tetangga Youtube account the unforgettable experience when he appeared as a woman and received severe bullying that he couldn't accept.

"If it's about bullying, it has been happening since a long time ago, it's like I already knew it, so I became very strong in facing bullying. But at least it's really hard to accept when it involves parents," said Aby when asked about bullying.

1. Not Disappointed and Regretful

credit: Youtube Bisik-Bisik Tetangga

Having once appeared as a woman, Aby doesn't feel disappointed and regretful. He considers it as part of his life journey, but he was also surprised as to why he could have done such a thing.

"Actually, I'm not disappointed, and if you say I don't regret it, it's because it's part of life and learning, part of a learning process. But when I remember it, I wonder how I could have been like that at that time," said Aby.

2. Hated by Neighbors

Aby revealed that he was once hated by his neighbors and was called a transvestite when he was still a feminine man.

"It was really bad, a lot. Yeah, since I was little, like what was I doing, for example, going to my friends, my same-age neighbors, what's Aby doing, are you going to be a transvestite when you grow up," said Aby on the Youtube channel Bisik-Bisik Tetangga.

"And then when he appeared all out as a woman, there was one neighbor who, according to me, seemed to be good in terms of religion, wearing a hijab and all, but at that time, she was the one who was so harsh, even bringing her parents," he added.

(kpl/nda)