Ruben Onsu Wants Quality Time with His Children, Happy That Sarwendah Invited Discussion

Kapanlagi.com - Ruben Onsu deeply yearns for quality time to gather with his children without the presence of a third party. He feels that communication regarding the schedule for meeting with his children still faces many technical obstacles until now.

The latest news mentions that Sarwendah has sent an invitation
for a discussion to address the issue of parenting. Ruben admitted that he has coordinated with his legal team to follow up on that very important meeting invitation.

"I have discussed with Bang Minola, regarding the date... Bang Minola can on that date, I can't. But thank God, I am happy that we can have a discussion like this," said Ruben Onsu when met by KapanLagi in the Kemang area, South Jakarta, Saturday (13/6/2026).

1. Ruben Hopes for a Bright Spot

Ruben is puzzled because a problem that is actually simple has become increasingly complicated. He emphasizes that the core of all his desires is simply about spending time with his children.

"Hopefully, there will be a bright spot. Because what is being discussed and requested is just the time for the kids," he said.

2. Misses His Children So Much

Ruben Onsu prays (credit: instagram.com/ruben_onsu)

Ruben expressed his longing to play and joke around like before with his three children. He hopes that all parties can be patient and facilitate access to meetings for the best interests of the child's future.

"What I really want is to meet with the kids, just me and the kids, that's all," he said.

3. Context and Background of the Discussion

The polemic between Ruben Onsu and Sarwendah arose after their divorce, including issues regarding visitation rights and alimony. Ruben expressed his concerns about the involvement of their children in Sarwendah's social media activities.

He also issued a warning to Giorgio Antonio regarding the call "Daddy Gio" from his children, emphasizing the importance of maintaining boundaries and the children's understanding of the father figure.

4. Longing to Meet the Children

Ruben Onsu wears a white shirt (credit: instagram.com/ruben_onsu)

The background of this conflict stems from Ruben's request for transparency regarding the details of the monthly alimony of Rp200 million. This eventually led to Ruben's admission that he felt the other party was making it difficult for him to see his children.

"Basically, all of that has been handed over to the lawyer, let it proceed. The bond remains my child, the bond still belongs to the father who is still here, just like that," he said.

(kpl/aal/pit)