Ruben Onsu's Heart is Mixed, Must Hide Sadness in Front of Thalia Who is Very Sensitive

Kapanlagi.com - Behind his firm stance in taking legal action, Ruben Onsu hides a deep sadness as a father. He admits that his feelings are mixed, especially when he has to act normal in front of his children.

Being the first love for his daughter, Ruben truly feels the pain when Thalia and Thania become targets of slander. He reveals how hard it is to hide his sadness while traveling with his daughter.

"Yes, definitely. And it feels like when I went out of town with her yesterday, it was all mixed up. The sadness is in the body, but we have to make her laugh. The mix of emotions is extraordinary," said Ruben Onsu at Polda Metro Jaya, Thursday (31/7/2025).

1. Thalia is Very Sensitive

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Ruben is very aware that his daughter, Thalia, is a very sensitive and empathetic child. He worries that if he shows sadness, Thalia will immediately feel it and be affected.

"But if we are sad in her eyes, she will feel it. Thalia is very sensitive. So, without you saying anything, she is already very perceptive," said Ruben.

2. Thalia's Sensitivity Has Been Apparent Since Childhood

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Thalia's sensitive nature has been evident since she was a child, especially during emotional moments. Ruben illustrated how his daughter has never been able to say happy birthday without crying.

"Yes, that's why she can't say happy birthday. Because if she says happy birthday, she will definitely cry. For example, 'Happy birthday, Dad,' or 'Happy birthday, Mom.' She will definitely cry," he said.

3. Thalia Has a Gentle Heart

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This shows how much Thalia understands the atmosphere and the feelings of those around her. For Ruben, this is proof that his daughter has a very gentle heart.

"So that's why she has understood emotional situations since she was little," he added.

4. How Ruben Makes His Daughters More Open

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As a father, Ruben has his own way of making his daughters more open. He admits that parenting styles from the past are certainly different from now, which demands parents to be more creative.

"Well, if it’s Thalia, yeah, maybe our style, eh, the way we did things back then is different from how kids are now," he said.

5. Fishing for Thalia to Share

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Ruben usually tries to fish for Thalia’s interest first so that his daughter is willing to start sharing. Interestingly, he often gets initial information from the youngest, Thania, who is more outspoken.

"But with Thalia, I usually try to, eh, get her to talk first before she wants to share," he explained. "Well, usually I get the information from her little sister, Thania," he said.

6. Thalia's Comfortable Moments Sharing

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After getting a tip from Thania, Ruben will pretend not to know until Thalia feels comfortable enough to share her story.

Intimate moments like when he carries her become the right time for Thalia to confide. KLovers will surely be touched to see the closeness between this father and child.

7. Thalia Shares with Ruben When They're Alone

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"I got it from her. Thania is quite outspoken, right? So I found out from her first, okay, then I pretended not to hear, and then they exchanged glances so that their father wouldn’t know," he explained.

"Later, when I'm alone with her or when she's being carried, that's when she shares. Usually, Thalia has to be alone with me to talk. But if her other siblings are around, she doesn’t. Yeah," Ruben concluded.

(kpl/far/dyn)