Ruben Onsu's Heart is Mixed, Must Hide Sadness in Front of the Very Sensitive Thalia

Kapanlagi.com - Behind his firmness in taking legal action, Ruben Onsu harbors deep sadness as a father. He admits that his feelings are mixed, especially when he has to act normal in front of his children.

Being the first love for his daughter, Ruben truly feels the pain when Thalia and Thania become targets of slander. He reveals how heavy it is to hide his sadness while traveling with his daughter.

"Yes, definitely. And it feels like when I went out of town with her yesterday, it felt all mixed up. The sadness is in my body, but we have to make her laugh. It's just an extraordinary mix," said Ruben Onsu at Polda Metro Jaya, Thursday (31/7/2025).

1. Thalia is Very Sensitive

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Ruben is well aware that his daughter, Thalia, is a very sensitive and emotional child. He worries that if he shows sadness, Thalia will immediately feel it and be affected.

"But if we are sad in her eyes, she will feel it. Thalia is that kind of person. Sensitive. So, without you saying anything, she already picks up on it very well," said Ruben.

2. Thalia's Sensitivity Has Been There Since Childhood

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Thalia's sensitive nature has been evident since she was little, especially during emotional moments. Ruben gave an example of how his daughter has never been able to say happy birthday without crying.

"Yes, that's why she can't say happy birthday. Because if she says happy birthday, she will definitely cry. For example, 'Happy birthday, Dad,' or 'Happy birthday, Mom.' She will definitely cry," he said.

3. Thalia Has a Gentle Heart

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This shows how much Thalia understands the atmosphere and feelings of the people around her. For Ruben, this is proof that his daughter has a very gentle heart.

"So that's why, eh, since she was little she has really understood the emotional atmosphere for her, like that," he added.

4. How Ruben Encourages His Daughters to Be More Open

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As a father, Ruben has his own way of making his daughters more open. He admits that parenting styles from the past are certainly different from now, which demands parents to be more creative.

"Eh, for Thalia, yeah, maybe our style, eh, the way we did things back then is different from kids today like that," he said.

5. Encouraging Thalia to Share Stories

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Ruben usually tries to fish for information from Thalia first so that his daughter is willing to start talking. Interestingly, he often gets early information from the youngest, Thania, who is more outspoken.

"It's just that with Thalia, I usually get her to open up first before she wants to talk," he explained. "Well, usually I get the information from her younger sister, Thania," he said.

6. Thalia's Comfortable Moments to Confide

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After getting a tip-off from Thania, Ruben pretends not to know until Thalia feels comfortable enough to share.

Intimate moments, like when he carries her, become the perfect time for Thalia to confide. KLovers must be touched to see this father-daughter closeness.

7. Thalia Tells Ruben When They Are Alone

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"I got it from her. You know Thania, she's so straightforward, right? So I found out from her first, okay, then I pretended not to hear, and then they made eye signals so that her dad wouldn't know," she explained.

"Only when I'm alone with her or when she's being carried, then she'll tell the story. Usually, Thalia has to be alone with her. But if there are other siblings, she won't. Yeah," Ruben concluded.

(kpl/far/dyn)